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FUN, FASHION AND PHILANTHROPY: THE CHICAGO LIGHTHOUSE PRESENTS FLAIR

Plus: Misericordia's Heart of Mercy Ball; A Sterling Event with Dr. Sandy, Opal and friends; Luminart's "Next Begins Now," a virtual success; John helps shine a light on the 1stGEN Scholarship Gala; Lightscape at the Botanic; The Baton Show Lounge celebrates 51; AIBI Revs UP!; The Joffrey Ballet "pulls back the curtain"; Zemeckis' The Witches on HBO; Howard Brown's Big Orange Ball; Pleasure for All CBD Playboy; International Playboy Bunny Reunion news; ULBGC Heroes Gala; Whitney, Tracey, Elda and Michael are ALL WINNING!; Fox 32 with our SYLVIA; Goodbye Tribune; This & That; Lotsa Videos and SOOO much more!

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Flair co-chairs Sheree Schimmer Valukas and Sherrill Bodine.

The Chicago Lighthouse's greatly anticipated FLAIR fashion show on October 16 was a virtual delight. It literally took a village, albeit a very socially distanced one, to bring this important mission and vision to life. Designers and retailers showcased their looks in pre-taped segments that went

Elizabeth McNally Mairs wears dress by MyStylist Macy's.

off without a hitch! This is all thanks to the talent and skills of my event co-host and show producer, Tracey DiBuono and her ZZAZZ Productions team, along with Kevin Sullivan and Francisco Perez. Huge kudos to Sheree Valukas and Sherrill Bodine who have expertly co-chaired this show for the past 4 years! The event's fashion segments were filmed at Tufano's Vernon Park Tap (1073 W. Vernon Park) with an edgy, cool urban backdrop (and filmed all in ONE day)! Male models

With Dr. Janet Szlyk (Lighthouse pres/CEO) and my co-host (and show producer) Tracey Tarantino DiBuono.

strutted down the middle of Vernon Park Place as a drone caught their moves from above. Models Sheree Valukas, Elyse Leavy, The Lighthouse's Lindsay Inglis and Elizabeth Mairs even climbed onto the roof (wearing designs by RedE) for dramatic shots from that angle. The creativity was truly off the charts. The scenes were all

Bridal segment by Lauren Lein with models Mary Lasky, Sally Jo Morris Pfaff and Sherrill Bodine.

captured on video by the uber-talented Troy Mairs along with his model/wife Elizabeth McNally Mairs. Participating stores and designers included Al Menotti Couture, Lauren Lein Shop, RedE Boutique, Mira Couture, MyStylist Macy's, Contessa Bottega, Etcetera, The Carlisle Collection and St.

Model Men Shaun Rajah, Jonathan Grabill, Mark Olley, Scott Bobek and Daniel Martin wearing MyStylist Macy's Men.

John. These fashion experts all brought their A-games as the clothing provided fit each model to perfection as well as suited their personalities. I was proud to co-host this virtual event with Tracey at The Lighthouse's pre-school on Roosevelt Road. It was so touching to see the teachers engaging their students virtually

Kristine Kinder wearing Contessa Bottega.

through their computers. As I walked down the hallway to the production area, I saw teachers dancing, singing and praising their students through computer screens. The enthusiasm, love and dedication filled

Designer Al Menotti with Felicia Winiecki (wearing his design).

the hallways of this haven of hope and it was so powerful to see. Dr. Janet Szlyk (Chicago Lighthouse president/CEO) spoke about the organization and how, over the past year, The Lighthouse "has come together to succeed during this tough time and shine like the beacon that we are." She talked about the org's employment services and job training programs and spotlighted staff members Kalari Girtley Jackson, Carly Englander and Jessica Smith, who are thriving in various positions within the organization. Kalari debuted the OrCam MyEye Pro, an amazing piece of technology that empowers people who are blind, enabling them to discern

Bobbi Panter, Sheree Valukas (event co-chair), Yvonne Fitzgibbon and Liz Teasley wearing St. John. 

people, places, things in front of them and tell time (without a watch!), among other remarkable features.

Sandy Murillo, Lighthouse development assistant, wearing MyStylist Macy's. 

Dr. Janet introduced Gaelynn Lea, a dynamic advocate for the disabled community who was born with a genetic condition that causes complications in the development of bones and limbs. She sang an original song (she also plays the violin) and is a past winner of the NPR Tiny Desk Contest. Event coordinator/friend Kevin Sullivan zoomed in from Marchesa where a fabulous Watch Party was being attended by about 34 guests. Owner Kathryn Alvera created a stunning environment, with gilded fall decor and even a

Kathy Cook, Hanah Bae, Heather Jane Johnston and Sherry Abrahams wearing Etcetera.

red carpet out front. Kevin expertly conducted a live auction raising much needed funds. Another Watch Party was hosted in River Forest by Lisa Birmingham. Participating models included

Mia Kapica, Lauren Annese, Nikki Friar and Claire Burke in Mira Couture.

Heather Jane Johnston, Sherry Abrahams, Kathy Cook and Hanah Bae (who all wore Carlisle and Etcetera designs); Mark Olley, Shaun Rajah (of The Drake), Jonathan Grabill, Scott Bobek and Daniel Martin (from Marchesa) (who wore Macy's Men); Bobbi Panter, Sheree Valukas, Yvonne Fitzgibbon

With Frances Renk, Sandy Murillo, Sherry Lea Holson and Elizabeth McNally Mairs wearing MyStylist Macy's.

and Liz Teasley (who were decked out in St. John); Kristine Kinder, Sherrill Bodine, Whitney Reynolds and Rhonda Liesenfelt (who wore Contessa Bottega); Felicia Winiecki, Kristine Kinder and Sherry

With Bobbi Panter, Kathy O'Malley Piccone, event co-host/show producer Tracey DiBuona and Helena Kontos (Contessa Bottega) at Marchesa Watch Party.

Lea Holson (wearing Menotti Couture); Sally Jo Morris (who wore her own wedding dress designed by Lauren Lein), Sherrill Bodine and Mary Lasky (all wearing Lauren Lein bridalwear); Sandy Murillo (of The Lighthouse), Elizabeth McNally Mairs, Frances Renk, Sherry Lea Holson and yours truly (wore looks created by MyStylist Macy's); Lauren

The Lighthouse's Carly Englander (L) and Kalari Girtley Jackson (R) with a Macy's MyStylist.

Annese and Claire Burke (of The Lighthouse), Mia Kapica and Nikki Friar (of Marchesa) (wore looks by Mira Couture). Since 1906, The Chicago Lighthouse has been a leader in serving the blind, visually impaired,

Kevin Sullivan, Al Menotti and Francisco Perez.

disabled and Veteran communities. This remarkable nonprofit serves more than 67,000 people annually and has pivoted expertly to virtual programming so their children can still be educated and engaged every day in their homes. Over $40,000 was raised that will support these programs and services providing education, and rehabilitation as well as employment services. (To donate, and for more info, click here!) And to watch the entire fabulous fashions and show, see below!

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Sister Rosemary Connelly, Misericordia executive director, with one of the residents.

Misericordia's Women's Board hosted its first virtual (38th!) Heart of Mercy Ball on October 14. Hundreds of supporters tuned in to watch a 90 minute virtual show that was emceed by longtime Misericordia supporter (Mr. Fix It) Lou Manfredini. He spoke about the many

Event host Lou Manfredini (Mr. Fix-It).

ways Misericordia pivoted during this pandemic to take care of its residents through fun activities that includes baking, bike-riding, arts and crafts and virtual programming to stay connected. Father Jack Clair, assistant executive director and chaplain at Misericordia, delivered a powerful prayer to open the

Actor/ Misericordia support Joe Montegna.

evening. Testimonials on the great work done here were presented by Mayor Lori Lightfoot, Pat Fitzgerald (head coach Northwestern University football), Mike Singletary (former Chicago Bear), Mary Ann Ahern (NBC 5 Chicago), actor Joe Montegna,

Benedetta Kelly, Misericordia Women's Board President.

Miguel and Kelly Cervantes, actor Mark Rolston ("The Shawshank Redemption"), Hoda and Jenna (The Today Show) and yours truly. Bennetta Kelly, Women's Board president spoke about the history of the organization. "Nearly a century ago, our board was founded to support Misericordia, then a maternity hospital

Miguel and Kelly Cervantes.

for women in need, then later becoming the Misericordia we know and love today...We support children and adults with a wide range of intellectual and developmental disabilities from numerous backgrounds," she said. Miguel and Kelly Cervantes thanked Sister Rosemary Connelly, executive director, for all her hard work

Mary Ann Ahern (NBC 5 Chicago).

before a clip of Miguel singing with The Heartbreakers was shown. The group danced while Miguel sang "This is Me" (a song by Keala Settle that was performed in the film "The Greatest

Lois Gates, Misericordia assistant executive director and chief development officer.

Showman"). Sister Rosemary's remarks always bring a tear to your eye. Her compassion and devotion to the cause is palpable. She's been a Sister of Mercy for 70 years and 50 years at Misericordia. She thanked everyone for their support saying it will help close the annual deficit of $20 million. "We can also pursue our

Pat Fitzgerald, Northwestern University head football coach.

dream projects of expanding our campus (8 new homes are planned as well as a drive-thru bakery) in the hope of being able to reach out to more families who are on the waiting list, families who want a

Susan Baker, WB member and event co-chair.

Misericordia and NEED a Misericordia. We hope soon to be able to give them the same peace of mind our families have known for decades...Throughout this horrible health crisis, our staff have risked their own lives to ensure our residents remain happy, healthy, engaged and challenged.

Jackie Kissane, WB member and event co-chair.

Tonight, we have the privilege of honoring our staff with a special Heart of Mercy Award," she said. 43-year staff member Mary Pat O'Brien, assistant executive director of residences and programs, presented the plaque to the

Mary Pat O'Brien, Misericordia ED of residences and programs, presented Mis Staff with special Heart of Mercy Award.

staff. 400 of them have been employed at Mis for 10 years or more and some have been there for 40+ years! Lois Gates, assistant executive director and chief development officer, read a letter to the staff thanking them for their outstanding efforts. A

Auctioneer Extraordinaire Greg "G-Man" Dellinger.

paddle raise was conducted by one of my favorite auctioneers, Greg "G-Man" Dellinger. A house for 6 in Ireland sold for $7500; a Peloton bike sold for $3000 and a week-long, Tuscany getaway for 4 sold for $4500. Co-chaired by WB members Susan Baker and Jackie Kissane, the virtual event exceeded the nonprofit's expectations raising over $311,000 and counting. (To donate or learn more, click here!)

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Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her supportive husband Greg Hines during the virtual event.

Even though it had to be virtual, Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her talented team figured out a way to make this year's (16th!) A Sterling Event benefiting A Silver Lining Foundation something very, very memorable just like she's always done in the past at her live events. Auctioneer Jim Miller opened the 90 minute show by introducing longtime supporter and WGN anchor Micah Materre who was shown in her kitchen busily creating the event's signature cocktail, a

Dr. Sandy and Greg in front with Laura Ivaldi, Jack Hazan, Jim Miller (auctioneer), Eric Lundgren and Scott Levine in rear.

Silvertini during a pre-show reception. From there, emcee Paul Lisnek (WGN News) took the virtual event reins and spoke about the nonprofit. "The challenges of being uninsured and under-insured persist now more than ever [for breast health testing]. Many of us know people who, six months

ABC 7's Tracy Butler.

ago, had all the insurance they needed, had a good job and their lives were pretty stable, but, due to the pandemic, their lives have been turned upside down. ASLF has looked at these folks and felt it needed to step up to make sure that NO ONE has to go without potentially life-saving breast health testing." Eric

LeeAnn Trotter, NBC-5 Chicago.

Siegelbaum, an internationally acclaimed wine & champagne expert who was Food & Wine magazine's 2019 Sommelier of the Year, explained the proper and safe way to open a bottle of champagne and conducted an ask-me-

Micah Materre, WGN News anchor, toasts A Silver Lining Foundation with her custom Silvertini. 

anything segment. Who knew I'd been doing it wrong all these years. He said to hold the bottle at a 45 degree angle, put thumb on top, untwist cage and grab BASE of bottle and twist from there! Now we know!  Lisnek introduced the show's highlight, a visually sensational video produced and directed by fashion designer/lawyer Mark Roscoe (who appears to have unlimited talents!) and written and performed by the one and only Opal

Roz Varon, ABC-7 Chicago.

Staples. "I Believe" is now the anthem of ASLF and a real (happy) tear jerker! (See video below). Dr. Sandy and her dear husband Greg Hines spoke about how the organization was founded in 2002 following her breast cancer

Auctioneer Jim Miller.

diagnosis. She recalled it came early in her marriage. She asked Greg to come home from work so she could share the news with him. His loving reply? "I married you, not your boobs!" (Just love him and the love they have together). I was honored to share a video tribute for this amazing nonprofit along with ABC-7's Tracy Butler, NBC Chicago's LeeAnn Trotter and Cancer Wellness magazine founder Caylei Vogelzang, among others. Tracy was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2018 and heard Dr. Sandy on the radio providing much needed inspiration and hope. LeeAnn lost her mom to breast cancer at an early age. Later

Ben Carstensen and his Tasting Stars event were recipients of the 2020 Evy Award, named after Dr. Sandy's mom, Evelyn Goldberg.

in the program, Brent Carstensen accepted the Evy Award on behalf of the Tasting Stars event he started years ago in support of the foundation. A Silver Lining Foundation

Courtney Mahoney, Chicago Wolves senior VP of operations.

has evolved from a single outreach program connecting those in need of breast health resources to a funder of potentially life- saving breast health testing. In 2019, ASLF funded almost 2000 tests for 1487 women, resulting in 18 life-saving diagnoses. The organization has 15 partner hospitals in the Chicagoland area. All event proceeds will support the programs of the foundation, in particular, Buy A Mom A Mammogram, which funds cost-free breast health testing for uninsured, underinsured, undocumented women and men and for those who have lost their jobs and health insurance due to the pandemic. (To donate or learn more, click here) (To watch Opal Staples perform "I Believe" see below, and to view the virtual gala, click here.)

And watch the virtual event here!

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(Top, L to R) Patrick Gleason, co-chair Matt Olaveson, Ken Norgan, Kelly Wicklander and Joe Wicklander. (Front)--Co-chair Adam Vitale and Vanessa George.

The Luminarts Cultural Foundation hosted a successful virtual event on October 10. "Next Begins Now," was a fundraiser to support our city's outstanding emerging artists so that they can pursue careers in the arts. Throughout the evening, we heard outstanding performances in a variety of genres. Katya Schloeman, a Luminarts Fellow in Dance 2017, performed a stirring ballet. She is a former company member of The Joffrey Academy of Dance. I was proud to introduce Josh Brown (via video of course), a 2019 Fellow in Classical Music, who performed on a 1679 Pietro Guarneri violin! Baritone Will Liverman, a 2017 Luminarts Fellow in Classical Music, played the piano and sang "Moonlight in Vermont" (he gave me chills he was so

Josh Brown, Luminarts 2019 Fellow in Classical Music. 

good). Josh is an alumnus of The Julliard School and

Will Liverman, 2017 Luminarts Fellow in Classical Music.

has been engaged to perform in lead roles at the Met, LA Opera and the Kennedy Center, among others. Emily Pogoreic, a Luminarts Fellow in Classical Music, sang as Chris Reynolds accompanied her on the piano. Jesse Stein, a 2020 Luminarts Fellow in Prose, read a delightful excerpt from his first book, "Mandrake." Leanne Williams, a Luminarts Fellow in Visual Arts, spoke about her passion for painting as the camera panned

Leanne Williams, Luminarts Fellow in Visual Arts.

around the room of her fabulous finished works. Leanne was recently featured as a 2020 Breakout Artist in NYC. A final performance was presented by soprano Nicole

Jesse Stein, a 2020 Luminarts Fellow in Prose.

Cabell, a Luminarts Award Recipient in Classical Voice. Other artists spoke about the remarkable impact the nonprofit has made in their lives. The event was expertly co-chaired by Matt Olaveson and Adam Vitale (board members) and Kylie Krizek (Wintrust Commercial Banking) who also hosted a virtual after-party with friends Ken Norgan, Patrick Gleason, Kelly and Joe Wicklander and Vanessa George. Kudos to all! (To donate and/or learn more, click here!)

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John C. Robak, CEO, Greeley and Hansen (Chicago State Foundation Board Member and Gala Chair)

I'm so very proud of my dear friend John Robak, CEO Greeley and Hansen, on his recent, virtual hosting duties on behalf of Chicago State University (in partnership with the Chicago State Foundation). He did a fabulous job sharing the story and fundraising for this wonderful school during its inaugural 1stGEN Scholarship Gala held on October 2. The university delivers a carefully curated

CSU President Zaldwaynaka Scott and CSF board member Christina Steed.

suite of wraparound supports designed to propel the success of first-generation and non-traditional students from diverse populations. According to stats, the greatest roadblock to first-gen success isn't a lack of talent or desire, but the lack of financial resources. Dollars raised from this event will be used to help remove that barrier. The evening celebrated student scholars who are the beneficiaries of 1stGEN Scholarships as

Alyssa Quinlan, Chief Business Development Officer at Hindman Auctions.

well as the presentation of the first-ever Cougar Servant Leadership Awards. These special honors were presented to former Illinois Senate President, and long-time CSU champion, Emil Jones, Jr., Chicago Public Schools CEO and CSU Alumna, Dr. Janice Jackson and longtime education and arts

Darrious Hilmon, Executive Director at Chicago State Foundation, is joined by radio personality Ramonski Luv. 

advocate, and Bronzeville Children's Museum founder Peggy Montes. Celebrity video shout-outs were delivered by actor Taye Diggs and actress Michelle Wilson. Other remarks came from Cristina Steed (Chicago State Foundation Board Member and host at 95.1 FM); Tiffany Davis (CSU alumna); Zaldwaynaka Scott (CSU president); Senator Elgie Sims and Darrious Hilmon (Chicago State Foundation ED), among others. The evening closed with a dance party hosted by DJ Vince Adams. Congrats to all involved! (To donate, or learn more, click here!)

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Roald Dahl's The Witches, which has been re-imagined by the

Leslie Zemeckis celebrates husband Robert's latest film.

award-winning director/writer/producer Robert Zemeckis for HBO, premiered on Oct. 22. Robert's adoring wife Leslie threw a socially distanced DIY cast party to celebrate with cake and champagne and, of course stylish masks. The story, which stars Anne Hathaway, Octavia Spencer and Stanley Tucci, takes place in late 1967. A young orphaned boy goes to live with his loving grandma (Spencer) in the rural Alabama town of Demopolis. As the boy and his  grandmother encounter some deceptively glamorous but thoroughly diabolical witches, she wisely whisks him away to a seaside resort. Regrettably, they arrive at precisely the same time that the world's Grand High Witch has gathered her fellow cronies from around the globe -- under cover -- to carry out her nefarious plans. See trailer below! Kudos Robert, Leslie and crew!

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Please mark your calendars NOW for Rev UP! 2020! This virtual (and oh-so fashionable) fundraiser will be held on Thursday, October 29 beginning at 6 pm, honoring Chicago's own Sherrill Bodine! Proceeds from this event will support our design community and the work of the Apparel Industry Foundation which provides

Sneak peek at Rev UP'S Peach Carr segment filmed at Bentley Gold Coast and produced by ZZAZZ Productions. Models Frances Renk and Sherry Lea Fox in center. (Sherry Lea Fox photo).

scholarships, educational programming, vocational training and more to young people
starting careers in the sewn products industry, and most recently keeping unemployed theater stitchers working to produce PPE. The event will feature a fashion show (produced by Tracey DiBuono of ZZAZZ Productions) showcasing the looks of designers Elda de la Rosa Couture, Lauren Lein Ltd., Menotti Couture, Model Atelier, Peach Carr, Rebellion, Ricorso and Soundoff. I'm thrilled to be co-hosting this event which will also include amazing raffle prizes (Peach Carr custom, signed handbag, one-of-a-kind leather and fur wristlet from Rebellion, hydra-facials from the one and only Leah Chavie, a sizable gift certificate from Elda de la Rosa and so much more! (To see more details and join us, click here!) See teaser video below!

And see Ambar Campos, AIBI executive director, describe the organization's impact below....

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The Joffrey Ballet's Women's Board will host a virtual event to kick-off the holiday season on Saturday, November 7, at 3 pm-- "Pulling Back the Curtain: The Nutcracker," Join them for a glimpse at The Nutcracker like never before with behind-the-scenes footage, interviews with Joffrey Company Artists and members of the Artistic team and delightful surprises to celebrate the magic of this story. With a program geared toward all ages and options to elevate your experience with at-home party packages, guests from age 2 to 92 can enjoy a memorable afternoon together. Proceeds from this event will go toward the Joffrey’s Crisis Stabilization Fund, a $12M initiative to provide for the continued health of the organization despite the COVID-19 pandemic. Join us in supporting this event as we raise necessary funding for the Joffrey’s programs and operations. Tickets and more info here!

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PAWS Chicago will be hosting its annual Fur Ball this year virtually on Friday, November 13, 7:50 pm. Thanks to the outpouring of support this year, this much loved NO-KILL shelter has been able to find forever homes for 3,280 dogs/cats! The virtual event will have lots of surprises, amazing auction items and, of course, those adorable dogs and cats! Please join us and find details here!

2020 PAWS VIRTUAL FUR BALL, FRIDAY, NOV. 13, 7:50 PM.

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Baton Show Lounge founder Jim Flint and friend (Mark Olley photo).

The Baton Show Lounge has been a go-to place for Chuck and me ever since we were first married. As a matter of fact, this is where I insisted we go on one of our first dates. Owner Jim Flint and the "ladies (and men now)" have been great friends to us since their many years

The one and only, Chilli Pepper! (Mark Olley photo)

at 436 N. Clark Street. This was a great location for us since we don't live very far from there but their new spot at 4713 N. Broadway is attracting a lot of new fans for this iconic institution. Mark Olley recently visited for a Sunday brunch show and raved about it! He said the performers, ambiance, everything was top rate! They're open Thursday through Sunday at 7 pm with these show times: Thursday and Sunday, 8 and 9:30 pm; Friday and Saturday, 8, 9:30 and 11:30 pm. The Patio Bar & Cafe is open Tuesday through Friday with the bar opening at 4:30 pm and the mini shows beginning at 2 pm, with entertainment every 10-15 minutes. (For more info, click here!) I hope to see you here soon! (And to see some fabulous footage of the club's 42nd anniversary party with Miss Chilli Pepper and friends, see below!) The Baton has been around since 1969!  

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The Chicago Botanic Garden is bringing back its fabulous LIGHTSCAPE, a captivating world of light, color, and sound in an all-new trail designed with our safety in mind. Bask in the glow of thousands of twinkling lights in favorites like the Cathedral of Light and new delights you've never seen before! Make new family memories this year at Lightscape, November 13 through January 3, 2021. This event sold out in its debut season last year so make your plans now! (Info here!)

The Botanic Garden's Lightscape--GET YOUR TICKETS NOW!

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The Union League Boys and Girls Clubs will honor some remarkable Chicagoans at its Virtual 43^rd Annual Inspirational Heroes Gala on November 7th, 6- 9 pm. The Gala will benefit Chicago youth served by the nonprofit’s critical programming that carried on despite closings due to COVID-19. Guests are invited to enjoy a memorable three-course meal (available for pick-up at the Club prior to the event) prepared by Chef Michael Ponzio drinks, a silent auction and a “Fund the Mission” campaign, as well as a few surprises! For more info, please click here.

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You can bet this virtual event will be a hoot and a night of squeals, screams, thrills and chills! Mark your calendars NOW for Howard Brown Health Center's BIG ORANGE BALL, coming to you virtually on Saturday, Oct. 24, 7:30- pre-show, 8-10 pm show. This virtual night will be hosted by Chicago's very own Lucy Stoole and will feature terrifying performances from Coco Sho-Nell, Tenderoni and Muffy Fishbasket plus spooky tunes by a variety of artists. Think virtual "peep holes" that include Electro & Rope Play Room; Ghost Story Room; Pole Dancing Room; Pillow Talk Room; Kink Room; Burlesque Room; Scantily Clad Room and Cruise Room with Lucy Stoole. (Must be 18 or over to participate.) Tickets start at just $20 and all proceeds will support LGBTQ+ care at Howard Brown Health. For tickets and details, click here!

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My "CBD Pleasure for All" Playboy ad.

Special thanks to Playboy, my forever family, for choosing me as an Influencer for their recent campaign, "Pleasure for All CBD Playboy." Chuck swears by CBD for shoulder pain, but this is a whole new way to incorporate CBD into your life! This all-new collection of products is a natural evolution for a brand that has led the cultural conversation on sex and pleasure for decades. The line includes a CBD Bath Bomb, CBD Arousal Spray and CBD Intimacy Gel (that Chuck swears by for his shoulder pain!). If interested, these products are available at www.pleasureforall.com (Also, for a 15% discount, mention my code CANDIDCANDACE15)

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And, on another Playboy note, the International Playboy Bunny Reunion has been rescheduled to July 15-18, 2021. The meet-and-greet weekend is for present or past employees only and will include a boat cruise, a Guys & Dolls party and then the main event on Sunday, July 18. For more info and to register contact, theplayboybunnyreunion@gmail.com.

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Whitney goes NATIONAL!

Huge congrats to my beautiful friend Whitney Reynolds, whose dream just came true! Starting Jan. 6, the Whitney Reynolds Show will be offered to PBS stations nationwide through the National Educational Telecommunications Association program distribution service! Her fabulous, feel-good show airs weekly at 6:30 pm Mondays on Lakeshore PBS WYIN-Channel 56! Tune in for stories that need to be told. Love and congrats Whitney! I'm so very happy for you!

 

 

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Michael Perich (The Gnome Colony) is the cover star for Glen Ellyn Living!

And more congrats are in order for two more friends! The Gnome Colony's Michael Perich will shine on the cover of the next Glen Ellyn Living magazine! If you haven't visited his charming store at 485 N. Main St. (in Glen Ellyn), then you are missing out on a lot of "love, whimsy and wishes"! His

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono is featured in Hindsdale Living!

philanthropic efforts in the community have also been spotlighted on WGN's "Around Town" with Ana Belaval, among many other news outlets. Another dear friend, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono (of ZZAZZ Productions) was highlighted in Hinsdale Living! #WINNING

Congrats to much loved designer Elda de la Rosa, who was honored recently at

Designer Elda de la Rosa is honored at the Runway Latinx fashion show/fundraiser.

Runway Latinx-Grace within Chaos fashion show/fundraiser. Founded by Arabel Rosales, this major fashion event honored our Elda with the Pivoting in Heels Award! And we all know how much she deserved this!

As many of you have heard, the Chicago Tribune canceled my Candid Candace column after 10 years. I'm sad the nonprofit community won't have a voice there anymore, however, I will ALWAYS support Chicago charities, through this blog and any other way I can. I didn't think we could receive more bad news but, in the space of two weeks, we lost our dog and my husband had a serious health issue and then this. I dare not ask what else could happen. Thanks to all my readers who followed me there and here and for the outpouring of support we've received from all of you. We SO felt the love through your uplifting comments, flowers and notes. A special thanks to Fox 32's Sylvia Perez for sharing my story this week (watch it below) and to Robert Feder for his compassionate shout-out in his widely read blog (read it here). I hope you will continue to follow me (and subscribe) at CandidCandace.com where my love for Chicago will always shine through.

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Trick or Treat!

 

HOLIDAY HEROES' MASK-ERADE GOES VIRTUAL AND WAY OVER GOAL TO BRING JOY TO HOSPITALIZED KIDS

Plus: Superstars of the Chicago Costume Council's Men's Fashion Awards; Service Club's "Day in the Country" (with apples); Gilda's Club Chicago's "Yes, And...An Improvised Gala"; TPAN's "Dining Out for Life" virtual party; Cancer Wellness Mag's "Loudest Voices" feature; Denise's "Eleanor" coming soon; The BEST Watch party for the Adler's Celestial Ball; "The Wings to Cure" for the Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation;  Silver Paws Gala for Young at Heart; Luminart's "Next Begins NOW"; "Still Together at Home" for Prentice; Danica's wine passion; Road trip to Saugatuck; REV UP! honors Sherrill; Chicago Lighthouse's fabulous FLAIR is coming SOON; The Service Club's Phantom Gala; Hoda Kotb will host LSCRF benefit; USO of Illinois' patriotic Salute Gala; This & That; Charming videos and SOOO much more!

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Paul Konrad, Felicia Winiecki, Scott Steele, Greg "G-Man Dellinger" and "Elsa" Jessica McClure

The Holiday Heroes broke fundraising goals with its first virtual fundraiser! Congratulations to this wonderful organization, its executive director Felicia Winiecki and the whole team on its first virtual event held on September 17! The goal was $200,000 and the night raised over $277,000 (and counting!) People tuned in from all over the country to view the event on various platforms: the nonprofit's website, a custom website (HolidayHeroesTV.com), YouTube LIVE and Roku TV with an estimated viewership of 4,353. Now that IS some joyous news and, from what I've seen of recent virtual fundraisers, it seems to be the norm. Supporters of these nonprofits are steadfast and know, that in times like these, they need to step up and boy have they ever! Almost all of the virtual events I've covered

Wilco's Jeff Tweedy.

have reached their goals, gone beyond and in some cases, broke all fundraising records! Methinks, even though we all love to be together at galas, that many of these nonprofits will always have some sort of virtual component included in their fundraising plans. Anyway, back to the main event! The 90 minute "Midway MASK-erade" began with a pre-show where Felicia, along with event host Paul Konrad (WGN-TV), explained the nonprofit's noble mission, to bring joy and entertainment to hospitalized kids (and families) battling life-threatening illnesses through days of play with themed activities and parties. The pre-show included comments from sponsors and VIPS: Stuart Baum (HH

Josh Spencer, HH board chair.

president); Lindy Antonelli (Armanino); Teresa Zagar (RSM); Josh Spencer (HH board chair); Neil Beaton (Alvarez & Marsal managing partner); Brandt Kucharski (GrubHub chief accounting officer); David Nessen (Mueller CEO/Pres); Kam Kniss (Wintrust CEO); Ted Botts (Baker McKenzie partner) and others. Mark Wagner, everyone's favorite bartender from Gibson's Steakhouse taught us all how to mix the signature drink, a Midway MASK-uerade Martini. Greg "G-Man"

Mark Wagner, Gibsons Steakhouse bartender.

Dellinger introduced the first auction item of the night, a concert for 4 with Luke Combs, the country-western superstar who was just named Country Artist of the Year at the CMAs. Jessica McClure, a volunteer who visits kids in hospitals on behalf of Holiday Heroes dressed as various super heroes during the night, and accompanied Greg in auction presentations dressed as different characters. Lucy Carapetyan, The Actors Gymnasium Special Events

Magician Ben Seidman

Manager, introduced performers in a fabulous juggling act and contortionist Kathleen Hoil twisted her body like a pretzel before the second auction item, a trip to the Florida Keys for 10, was offered. The Heart of the Hero Award, the organization's highest honor, went to longtime supporters Nancy and Art Hudson. Their daughter Arlie and son Reed spoke lovingly about their parent's humility and how they always prefer to "fly under the radar and make positive life-altering impacts

Contortionist Kathleen Hoil.

on those around them quietly." The Hudsons donated a van that is colorfully wrapped in HH messaging for hospital visits. The auctioneer then presented a deluxe golf package that featured foursomes at courses throughout the region including Butterfield, Olympia Fields, Crystal Lake, Glen Oak, Rolling Green and Big Foot Country Clubs. Another package featured a dinner for 12 with celebrity Chef Charles Webb.

Nancy and Art Hudson, Heart of a Hero honorees.

Rare bottles of Pappy Van Winkle Bourbon were donated for auction by a supporter from his own cellar. Magician Ben Seidman performed sleight of hand before a powerful impact video featuring Britta and Eric Peterman. The Petermans spoke movingly about caring for their son Eli, who was diagnosed with muscular dystrophy when he was 8

The Peterman Family

months old and how Holiday Heroes kept all of their spirits up. Mom Britta said, "Holiday Heroes brings joy and hope. I think finding things that can put smiles on kids' and family's faces is the best medicine anyone could have

The late Baby Eli.

when you're going through the most stressful time of your lives." Eli sadly passed away in 2020. Grammy Award-winner Jeff Tweedy, Chicago native, guitarist and lead singer for the band WILCO, performed a song he had written specially for the event, "One and a Half Stars" about a mother's love for her child. Jessica McClure, dressed in full Wonder

Adam LeBlanc of Sixteen Candles.

Woman attire, summed up the impact of the nonprofit, "The Holiday Heroes team knows exactly what these children and their families need, inside and out. It's a beautiful way to remind people that in their darkest days, there is hope and they ARE strong enough to get through it." The event was expertly produced by Scott Steele of Steele Media Group and it truly felt like a trip to the circus, with so many well-timed moving parts and top-notch entertainment. The popular cover band Sixteen Candles closed the show singing "I Think We're Alone Now." Congrats to ALL! (To learn more about The Holiday Heroes, or to donate, please click here.)

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The Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum is sure thinking on its virtual feet. The event they planned to raise awareness and funds for the Museum was so cool! The annual Chicago Men's Fashion Awards (CMFAs), typically a very chic fundraiser held at some high end retail store with Chicago's top fashionistas, went virtual this year with a digital campaign photographed by Sandro Miller. The CMFAs honors the city's best-dressed men and, this year, 10 were chosen, not only for their fashion sense but also for their philanthropy in the community. They included, in no particular order: Kareem K.W.O.E. Wells, a Level Next Music Recording artist, CEO of Flow Entertainment and founder of the KWOE Foundation, a nonprofit that uses music to help kids reject violence. Gary Metzner, the 2nd honoree is the VP/head of office, Sotheby's Chicago. He said the best advice he was ever given was to switch from business school to art history. He's raised millions for charity as an auctioneer. Dr. Julius Few, a renowned plastic surgeon, gives back through his Few Initiative for Children. He also recently partnered with the Common Ground Foundation to aid students in need with school and after-school programming. Andrew Caruso works in luxury retail and,during the pandemic, has been rounding up his co-workers to help make donations to food banks, Black Lives Matter and social justice causes. Rino Burdi is a much loved fashion designer and owner of Burdi's men's store on Walton. He supports several charitable organizations (and I can vouch for this having seen his high-end donations on a regular basis), and especially those involving dogs and kids. David Sanchez, a much loved former model who is now an entrepreneur CEO, talent agent and educator, is a supporter of The Boys & Girls Clubs and The Chicago Fashion Incubator. He said, "I believe my job is to be of service to others, every day. I use my knowledge, my voice and my gifts to bring people together, and that is how I can go to bed happy at night knowing I'm doing my part to see people succeed." Mark Bundra founded ALL IN Lacrosse, a business centered around helping young athletes achieve their personal and athletic goals through private and small group lacrosse instruction. He works very closely with OWLS (Outreach with Lacrosse in Schools), a nonprofit that provides mentorship and access to scholarships, improving the academic and social outcomes of the youth it serves.  Daryl Sneed has his feet planted firmly in both the creative and business worlds. He's a healthcare consultant as well as the founder/lead designer for the women's modern heritage brand, Ricorso, and in  2016, he co-founded the lifestyle brand SOUNDOFF as CEO and co-creative. He's a lover and supporter of Chicago's arts and dance community, especially The Joffrey Ballet, Hubbard Street Dance Chicago and the CSO. Lee Allison is a men's accessories and clothing designer. His two best pieces of advice: Don't over-think things and don't pursue perfection when good is good enough. During the pandemic, he's been creating tailored face masks from men's Italian shirting and, with every purchase, there's a donation to Feeding America (so far, he's raised over $2,000). And last, but certainly not least, we have Joshua Blake Carter who works with Giordano Dance Chicago as the director of Giordano II. Additionally, he's an award-winning freelance choreographer and teaching artist as well as a longtime advocate and volunteer for Chicago Dancers United and Dance for Life. I know most of these exceptional men and was honored to have collaborated on the Q&A for each profile. Check them all out here and congrats to all!

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Sherry Abrahams, Heather Jane Johnston, Jean Antoniou and Kathy Wolter Mondelli.

In years past, The Service Club of Chicago's Day in the Country was what we know today as Day on the Terrace, a day of fashion at a suburban estate. Well, in 2020, Service Club re-visited the Day in the Country

SC pres Sherrill Bodine raised a ton for the nonprofit by wearing these overalls. Members placed bets that she wouldn't and the org won big!

theme and brought it back to life with an afternoon of fundraising and apple picking! Wednesday, September 16th, was a beautiful, sunny day, perfect for a visit to Heather Spyra’s home in Spring Grove. Heather and her husband Eric greeted visitors, as well as the darling miniature horses from Mane in Heaven, a nonprofit that provides therapeutic benefits to disabled children. The horses were one of the many hits of the day! City guests arrived via shuttle bus (with

Bobbi Panter enjoys fun in the sun.

champagne, of course), and all guests enjoyed a wonderful box lunch under a tent in Heather’s yard, beautifully decorated for the Fall season. After lunch, the group set off to Stades Farm in McHenry for apple picking! Not only did they walk the orchards and pick apples to take home, but the Farm Store was also a big hit with the ladies as they oohed and ahhed over the fresh produce and delectable bakery items. The entire day from start-to-finish was socially distanced and safe per the rules of the day. During an earlier Zoom meeting discussing this event, members

Designer Lauren Lein, sitting pretty!

challenged Service Club President Sherrill Bodine to don a pair of overalls for the event and lots of donations poured in! SC member Cheri Lawrence then offered to match every donation.  Sherrill looked gorgeous as always, and all

Event host/ SC member Heather Spyra.

pledges went to support the group’s Philanthropic Grant Fund for 2021. The Development Committee of Service Club, chaired by Cheryl Coleman and Bobbi Panter, is charged with developing new and innovative funding ideas. Day in the Country succeeded in that mission. As Sherrill Bodine told the audience, ”It’s a

Mane in Heaven miniature therapy horses served as greeters!

beautiful day, and a great event. My thanks to all of you for ensuring that our mission of service continues for our city and those who need us." Roughly 40 ladies traveled to the country for the event raising nearly $15K for their mission--to assist, improve and expand upon agency programs for nonprofits in the Chicagoland area. Its grant recipients operate in the areas of social service, cultural, educational and civic fields and they serve individuals all over greater Chicagoland. The SC is an all-volunteer women's organization founded in 1890. All proceeds raised are distributed to the worthiest 501c3 agencies in the community.

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DOFLChi virtual event hosts Bryant Dunbar (TPAN director of development) and Izzie Contagious (Kiki Queens president/founder)

It was all about supporting local restaurants and TPAN when Dining Out for Life was held on September 24. On this day (and year-round), people are encouraged to dine out at restaurants who have supported TPAN and its mission of providing love and support for people affected by HIV across Chicagoland. A virtual event followed hosted by Bryant

Tom Vendafreddo (founder/director Chicago Artists Chorale) and event performer.

Dunbar (TPAN Director of Development) and curated and hosted by Izzie Contagious, Kiki Queens' president/founder. (Kiki Queens is a live-singing charity drag troupe that

Venus Envy, drag performer and co-founder of Kiki Queens.

donates every dollar they raise to Chicago nonprofits.) The virtual production made you feel like you were watching a spectacular musical and, indeed, many of the participating artists have appeared on Broadway. Tom Vendafreddo, founder/director of Chicago Artists Chorale, opened the show singing "Way Ahead of My Time", a song about a cave man's son coming out. Joseph Anthony Byrd ("Kinky Boots," "Lion King") sang a duet with Austin Head, "Not My Father's Son" (from "Kinky Boots"). Juilliard trained opera singer, Michael St. Peter played the piano and sang

Michael St. Peter

"Corner of the Sky" from "Pippin." He said the theme of the song, about finding your purpose in life and a sense of belonging in the world, is what TPAN is doing for so many people, specifically in the LGBTQ+ community. Co-host Briant Dunbar spoke about TPAN's impact. "We serve 100s of people affected by HIV right here in Chicago, more than 335 LGBTQ+, primarily street homeless and unstably housed young adults who come to us because they often have nowhere else to turn to for care and

Joseph Anthony Byrd and Austin Head sang a duet.

services. We're also a home for healthcare and support for older adults, many long term survivors of HIV, people who have been lived with HIV for decades and are going down the path of life and need our care and support" he said. Vendafreddo returned to sing "Get Happy" with Broadway vet Marya Grandy and closed the show with, what he called, the community's

Performance artist Trevor Perry aka Gwendolyn Van Cartier.

unofficial anthem about being "out" and proud of who you are, "I Am What I Am" from "La Cage aux Folles". The song's composer Jerry Herman was diagnosed with HIV in 1985 and passed away in

Soloist Grabiel Mudd.

2019. Drag performer and co-founder of Kiki Queens, Venus Envy, sang "Everybody's Girl" in a skintight red sequined mini dress. Other artists included Heather Boehm ("Hamilton," violinist and president of Theatre Musicians Association); Michael McBride (singer, keyboardist), Trevor Perry (vocalist, performance artist "Gwendolyn Van Cartier") and others. The evening ended with Venus Envy singing a medley of dance music from the 70s that included "Hot Stuff", "She Works Hard for the Money", Toot Toot Beep Beep" and more. 

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Gilda's Club Chicago namesake Gilda Radner with husband Gene Wilder.

Gilda's Club Chicago presented a virtual fundraiser, "Yes, And...An Improvised Gala" on Friday, September 25. The event was produced by The Second City and included presentations from alums and present members plus a variety of other celebs and notables. Gilda's Club Chicago is a place where men, women and children whose lives have been impacted by cancer, as well as their family and friends, can find support. The Clubs were founded in 1995, after its namesake, Gilda Radner, lost her battle with ovarian cancer. Her

Larry Wert, event co-host.

husband, Gene Wilder, and friends opened the first "red door" in NYC in her honor. Since then, Gilda's Clubs have sprang up across the country in collaboration with The Wellness Community. On this night, Jon Harris and Larry Wert, a true dynamic duo, teamed up as co-

Jon Harris, event co-host.

emcees. The evening included impact videos and celebrity shout-outs and opened with remarks from LauraJane Hyde, GCC CEO. She spoke about how we have all been resilient, and have survived by improvising and how this year has confirmed the importance of their mission. She said, "Cancer doesn't discriminate. We have bonded as a community." Singer/songwriter Steven Page, one of the founders of Barenaked Ladies, sang his hit song, "It's All Been Done Before" and a new song he just wrote during the pandemic called

Actress Bonnie Hunt participated in the virtual event.

"Isolation." NBC's Al Roker sent in a video congratulating the nonprofit for serving over 50,000

Al Roker congratulated the nonprofit via video.

members since it's opening. Joel Murray ("Mad Men", "Dharma and Greg," "Shameless") remembered how he and all his brothers fell in love with Gilda especially after a rainy night out with their mother. Gilda raced back to her apartment just to get a raincoat for their mom and they never forgot her kindness. He said, "Thanks to Gilda's Club for being there during people's hardest times and for reminding them

Jarret Payton

that they are loved." Testimonials came in from Raymond, Meghan and Aidy Bryant (of

With GCC's CEO LauraJane Hyde and Brad Newquist, director of development.

"Saturday Night Live"). They all spoke of the impact GCC has had on their lives. Raymond, who was diagnosed with prostate cancer 6 1/2 years ago, said the "emotional benefits of the Wellness Group is profound and that the sense of community is so empowering." Actress Bonnie Hunt delivered a very heartfelt message about being an oncology nurse and having her niece go through a cancer journey. Jarrett Payton also sent a video sharing his support of GCC. The evening closed with Bradford Newquist (GCC Director of Development) performing several standards including the very timely "Don't Get Around Much Anymore" by jazz great Duke

Joel Murray, (seen here with brother Bill Murray) participated in the evening via video.

Ellington. (I was proud to be a part of this evening too, submitting a video and speaking about my longtime support

Steven Page (of Barenaked Ladies) performed.

and involvement with this great organization and how much it means to so many.) (For more info, and to support, Gilda's Club Chicago, click here). GCC is now running over 150 virtual programs per month such as support groups, lectures, healthy lifestyle activities and more, to keep the community connected, active and engaged while they're apart. (See virtual calendar here for programming).

Gilda's Club Chicago team with CEO LauraJane Hyde (3rd from R).

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ABC-7's Tracy Butler is cover star for Cancer Wellness mag's "Loudest Voices" feature.

Many thanks to Cancer Wellness magazine (and founder Caylei Vogelzang) for including me in its "Leading Ladies of News: Loudest Voices" cover feature! The "Women's Health Issue" features one of my favorite media peeps,

So honored to be a part of this cover feature.

ABC-7's Tracy Butler (who is a breast cancer survivor), as its beautiful cover star. Other media friends included are: NBC-5's Zoraida Sambolin (also a breast cancer survivor/advocate); NBC-5's LeeAnn Trotter (who lost her mother to breast cancer and is an advocate); ABC-7's Roz Varon (a breast cancer survivor/advocate); Whitney Reynolds (advocate) and me (Chuck was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2013 and I support many cancer related nonprofits). The article was beautifully written by Taylor Novak with photos by Katrina Wittkamp and Sarah Bell. (To read/see digital mag, click here and to order, click here!) What an honor, so grateful.

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"Eleanor's Very Merry Christmas Wish" is a book for ALL ages written by my friend Denise McGowan Tracy! It's a charming tale of a toy who's "left behind" and her journey to find happiness. I don't want to give the story away but the book is filled with all kinds of wonderful

Denise McGowan Tracy

inspiration for kids. It teaches them to never give up, have hope, remain joyful and positive and be a good friend. Actually, this is something we all need to learn! Loved it from beginning to end and the beautifully rendered illustrations by John Michael Downs make you feel like you are right there at the North Pole. It's much more than a Christmas story and would make a great gift too. Last year, this wonderful book was made into a play (where even Santa was on hand as a special treat for the kids) but, this year, due to Covid, the book's magical story will be live-streamed so you can watch it in the comfort of your own home. Perfect for a wintry night as you wait to hear hooves on the roof! (Order here ,coming soon!) and I'll share live-stream info as soon as it becomes available).

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With Chuck and Watch Party co-hosts Almira (Sugar) Yllana and Gio (Spice) Krozel.

Chuck and I were invited to the most delightful (black tie!) Watch Party for the Adler Planetarium's virtual Celestial Ball celebrating its 90th anniversary on

Cindy Davidson, Gio (Spice) Krozel, Almira (Sugar) Yllana, Tina Nassos and Ilenia Lutz.

Saturday, Sept. 12. The party was hosted by Sugar & Spice (Almira (Sugar) Yllana and her darling twin sister Gio (Spice) Krozel) at the LondonHouse Cupola with a few of their good friends. Party people included John and Tina Nassos, Khalil Pillai, Scott Lutz, Ken Krozel, Robert App, Cindy Davidson, Ilenia Lutz, Parmita Katkar and others. Almira and Gio are Adler board members and are such an asset to this organization. Decor for the party included everything from Outer Space Barbies to Nike Limited Edition Moon Shoes! Even Rosemary Fanti and her dear Richard Koranda were on hand creating portrait keepsakes! Thanks to LondonHouse GM Homero Villarreal for a great night too! Yes, it was a STELLAR event! (To learn more about this cultural gem, click here: adlerplanetarium.org)

Adler Planetarium's fun-filled Watch Party hosted by Sugar & Spice (Almira Yllana and Gio Krozel) at LondonHouse Chicago Cupola.

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The Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation will host this year's "The Wings to Cure" event virtually on November 14, at 6 pm. The Foundation was founded by Eleni Bousis, with friends, who will be chairing the event along with Dr. Leonidas Platanias (director, Robert H. Lurie Comprehensive Cancer Center of Northwestern University). The Foundation was created in 2014 by "four compassionate people who wanted to make a difference for humanity and those impacted by hearing the word cancer." (For event details, click here.)

Young at Heart Senior Pet Rescue will host its annual Silver Paws Gala virtually this year on Saturday, Oct. 24, at noon. Besides general tickets, VIP tickets are also available which include a fun 1950s "Drive In" goody box filled to the brim with cool stuff. This 1950s themed party will include music from The Acoustic Generation, a live auction and, of course, adorable visuals. To register and support this nonprofit that rescues senior dogs and cats, click here.

Reminders! Don't miss Luminarts "Next Begins Now" virtual event on Saturday, October 10 at 6 pm. The event will be co-chaired by Matt Olaveson, Adam Vitale and Kylie Krizek to help provide resources for young, talented artists to launch a career in the arts. (Details here!)

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Friends of Prentice's "Still Together at Home" will be held virtually on Saturday, Oct.24 at 7:30 pm to support women's healthcare. (Details here!) Misericordia will host its "Heart of Mercy Ball "virtually on Wednesday, Oct. 14 at 6 pm to support its programming and housing for children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities. (For details, click here).  

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Planning for this year's FLAIR fashion show to benefit The Chicago Lighthouse is moving along at lightening

Co-chairs Sheree Valukas and Sherrill Bodine.

speed. All the models have been fitted and will be taping their segments shortly. Now all we need is YOU! Please join us on Friday, Oct. 16 at 11 am when I'll be co-hosting with show producer Tracey DiBuono (ZZAZZ Productions) to raise funds for this wonderful nonprofit that provides love, care and support for the blind, visually impaired or disabled. Co-chaired by Sherrill Bodine and Sherree Valukas, the event will be a blast for this worthy cause. (See video promo here and register here for the virtual show!)

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The Service Club of Chicago will host its "Phantom Gala" from October 12-22. This virtual on-line campaign, co-hosted by SC members Mary Lasky, Kristine Kinder, Mary Claire Moll and Tina Weller, will feature a super DELUXE  Live Auction and so much more! Proceeds will support the organization's Philanthropic Grant Program which provides funds to nonprofits for items they need to serve their community. (All info here!)

 

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Also, please mark your calendars for REV UP! 2020! We're going virtual, of course, on Thursday, October 29, 6 pm, to support the Apparel Industry Foundation which provides scholarships, education programming, vocational training and more to Chicago's design community. This year, we will honor the one and only Sherrill Bodine with some of our city's most popular designers! Proud to host this big night with fashion show production by ZZAZZ! Join us! (All details here!)

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The Lynn Sage Cancer Research Foundation will host its virtual Fall Benefit on Thursday, Oct. 22 at noon. This year's celebrity keynote speaker/host will be Hoda Kotb, co-host of NBC's Today Show, a four-time Emmy winner, New York Times best-selling author and a breast cancer survivor. Another featured speaker will be Ceta Walters, founder Clark & Stone, an LSCRF board member and cancer survivor. For all the info and to register, click here!  

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Danica Rose

At the opening of Nobu, Chuck and I discovered a delightful new rosé created by world-renowned, retired race car driver Danica Patrick! Who knew?! Patrick teamed up with Nechio Novak private equity group on the product, Danica Rosé Wine, which is sourced in Provence. Her passion for wine began in her racing days which led to a purchase of a vineyard in Napa Valley, and finally to creating her own wine brand, Somnium. Now she can add this crisp and light rosé to her growing line of products. (Available online here and in retail stores nationwide in 2021).

The USO will host its virtual Salute Gala on Thursday, Oct. 15 at 6:30 pm. Since 1941, this nonprofit has been the "Force Behind the Forces", supporting our military and their families throughout their time in uniform and as they transition back into their communities following their service. Widely acclaimed as “Chicago’s Premier Patriotic Gala”, the event will feature a star-studded evening of entertainment and dazzling military pageantry – all in honor and support of the men, women and families of the U.S. Armed Forces. Funds raised at the Salute are devoted to the support of USO of Illinois programs and services that annually serve nearly 350,000 military and military families. To register and for more info, click here!  

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Starlite Resort in Saugatuck with Rooney Rules.

Earlier this month, Chuck, Rooney and I took another little road trip to Michigan, this time to Saugatuck. I made plans for us to stay at a darling little retro motel called Starlite Resort at 3353 Blue Star Hwy. Believe

Saugatuck Antique Pavilion--over 175 dealers!

me, it wasn't luxurious but it was spotless and family-owned with an adorable pool, fire pits, hot tub and more, in a very charming setting off the road. It was like a step back in time to the '50s but with a cool modern vibe. I chose it because I loved the images I saw online and, more importantly, because it was very dog friendly. The weather was perfect and we toured like mad with the top

Douglas Root Beer Barrel

down on our convertible, visiting Oval Beach one evening to see the sunset (not there), enjoyed a root beer at the famous Douglas Root Beer Barrel (a local landmark since 1952), dinner at The Butler and Marro's, a visit to the fabulous (nearly 200 dealers) Saugatuck Antique Pavilion (2948 Blue Star Highway), a visit to Tuck's of Saugatuck Christmas Store and so much more. We drove all along the lakefront, even down forbidden dead-end lanes which is how we discovered Lake Shore Resort. This little hidden lakefront gem, tucked away at 2885 Lakeshore Drive is the definition of peace and well-being. All you could hear were the birds and the waves lapping onto the beach below. I was told the rooms have all been redone and the landscaping is sheer perfection, it's an oasis of calm in a mad, mad world. I took all the info and, hopefully, we can try it sometime down the road. The trip, although short, was the perfect pandemic antidote.

Lake Shore Resort, Saugatuck, 2885 Lakeshore Drive.

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The late Rooney Rules at a McDonald's Drive-Thru, his favorite place in the world.

Sadly, this trip was the last one with our lil' boy Rooney Rules, who we lost on October 1. Even though he was old, 16, he was in great health, playing, eating, drinking, until a freak accident on September 26. He either jumped or fell off the bed and we rushed him to Medvet but it was no good. He had severe spinal cord injury that paralyzed all four of his legs. He was still there in spirit but in so much pain. It was horrible to see him suffer. He was a rescue from PAWS Chicago who we were lucky to adopt on September 27, 2006. He was the sweetest little boy--we never heard him growl, saw him snap or bark a word in anger. He loved everything except other dogs and vacuum sweepers. He made us smile every single day of our lives and we never went anywhere without him. He's in every family photo and I can't imagine what life is going to be without him. I know everyone goes through this kind of pain and it's just unbearable but it would've been more unbearable to have lived life without knowing him. He'll always be our baby boy and he will always be loved and missed. Our hearts are breaking...Your many messages, words of support, flowers, texts, all lifted our hearts so much knowing that Rooney was so well loved. Thank you so much.

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Monkey magic!

 

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Plus: Chicagoans' MASK-querade; PorchlightPalooza; Foster Boy, a must see!; Rush Woman's Board Fall Benefit; AIDS Foundation of Chicago's Walk/Run; TPAN and Kiki Queens host Dining Out for Life; Misericordia's Heart of Mercy Ball and Artist in All; Friends of Prentice, "Still Together, at Home"; A Sterling Event with Opal; Gilda's Club Chicago's "An Improvised Gala"; WITS' Ungala; Greenhouse and Belushi team up for CBD; Playboy's new Insta App; MSI hosts virtual Columbian Ball; This & That; Darling videos and SO much MORE!

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The Illinois Holocaust Museum & Education Center in Skokie, IL.

The Women's Leadership Committee of the  Illinois Holocaust Museum and Education Center hosted its first virtual SOIREÉ on September 2, raising over $250,000 (its highest

The Voice finalist Katie Kadan.

netting event to date). This Museum, located in Skokie, is for ALL people who want to learn about the past, combat hatred and prejudice and become better world citizens aka Upstanders. I was proud to serve as host for this hour-long event that attracted over 1,100 viewers and

Actress Sharon Stone.

included surprise guests Sharon Stone, Bonnie Hunt and many others, plus musical guests The Voice finalist Katie

93.9 Lite FM radio personality Melissa Forman with Dr. Ruth Westheimer.

Kadan, cantors from Northshore congregations, singers from Pastor Chris Harris' Bright Star Church of Chicago, pop artist Alexander Glantz (Alexander 23), Harold Green (poet) and many more. The live portion of the event was filmed at Frost Studios under the watchful eyes of the Museum's Lori Fagenholz

Juliet Gray--WLC president/volunteer.

and her amazing, dedicated team including Marcy Larson, Ken Cooper and others. Kadan kicked off the evening singing "Brave" (by Sara Bareilles) followed by remarks from WLC member/event chair Caroline Pfeffer. Caroline spoke about the Museum's scholarship program

Fritzie Fritzshall, Survivor and IHMEC president.

that allows students from all backgrounds and faiths the opportunity to learn about the Holocaust so they can make an impact in their own communities. Susie

Susie Karkomi--WLC founding member/ VP.

Karkomi, WLC founding member and daughter of a Holocaust Survivor and daughter-in-law of two Survivors, said, "With the increase of hate crimes today as well as discrimination on so many levels, the need to teach about tolerance, humanity and the lessons of the

Katie Couric and husband John Molner.

Holocaust are more urgent than ever in order to impact positive change. It's time to show up and stand up. Acquiescence is unacceptable."

Actress Bonnie Hunt.

Juliet Gray, WLC president, introduced other members who shared their reasons for being involved with the Women's Leadership Committee. Leslie Schaffel joined to honor the memory of her great-grandparents who perished in the Holocaust and to honor her grandparents who persevered to establish a Jewish life in America. Other WLC members/speakers included Robin Levy,

Gospel singer Opal Staples.

Stacey Gottlieb and Sherri Schorsch. TV personality and author Katie Couric, along with

Cantor Jay O'Brien.

her husband John Molner (who grew up on the Northshore), spoke about the book she is writing about her Jewish grandparents and how important it is to support the Museum. Nancy and Michael Reinsdorf told viewers their son had his bar mitzvah at the Museum and that Susan was a volunteer there.

Singer/songwriter Laurie Akers.

With Susan Abrams, IHMEC CEO.

Actress/producer Bonnie Hunt emotionally shared one of the most moving stories of the night. She said, when she was a teen, she was involved in a minor car accident and had to spend some time in the hospital. As she bemoaned the fact that she was there and complained about having to stay, her mother told her she wanted her to read the book "Night" by Elie Wiesel. Hunt said, "The book changed me as I discovered that something so horrific in our history could happen." Years later, as an oncology nurse, she had the opportunity to meet

Preacher/songwriter/producer Carl Hearne.

Wiesel (who had been diagnosed with multiple myeloma)

Caroline Pfeffer,WLC event chair.

at an event and thank him. When she apologized for the length of the evening (he wasn't feeling well and his wife was with him in a wheelchair), he said, "Oh, I don't believe in complaining."  She said, "Then and there, he changed me again." (I cried like a baby). I conducted a Q&A with Susan Abrams, Museum CEO, who spoke about all aspects of the Museum including what was coming up next. The "Notorious RBG"

Rita Mathias,WLC founding member/docent.

exhibit (about the remarkable life of Justice Ruth Bader

Kelly Szany--IHMEC VP Education & Exhibitions.

Ginsburg) has been extended through the end of the year to be followed by "Mandela: Struggle for Freedom", an exhibit on the Shanghai Ghetto and, closing out 2021, with "Rise Up" about Stonewall and the struggles of the LGBTQ+ community. Eileen Kugman, WLC member and co-entertainment chair, introduced her aunt, the one and only Fritzie

Kerry Kennedy--President Robert F. Kennedy Human Rights.

Fritzshall, IHMEC president and Survivor. Fritzie shared, "It is important to me as a Holocaust Survivor for the Museum to exist so it can teach about the past so it can teach

Museum supporters Nancy and Michael Reinsdorf.

about the future, about what is happening today with anti-semitism raising its head again." Kelly Szany, VP Education & Exhibitions, speaking from the Karkomi Holocaust Exhibition surrounded by images of

Pop star Alexander Glantz aka Alexander 23.

Survivors, introduced several of them who shared words of wisdom and advice: "The purpose is not to curse the darkness of the past, but to illuminate the future.";

Detective Marcus Shephard.

"Teach your children not to discriminate, we are all equal" and more. Survivor Magda Brown, who recently passed away, had said, "My mantra is you have to have faith, fantasy, drive, determination and hope that tomorrow will be better." A musical

Musical artist Kenneth Lyonswright.

interlude was led by singer/songwriter Laurie Akers who wrote "Stand Strong." The song was sung by cantors from Northshore congregations and singers from Pastor Chris Harris' Bright Star Church of Chicago who included Opal Staples, Jenipher Jones, Carl Hearne, Cantor Jay

With IHMEC's Marcy Larson and Ken Cooper during a tour.

O'Brien, Ernest Johnson, Chrystal Harris, Kenneth Lyonswright, Cantor Andrea Rae Markowicz and Cantor Susie Lewis-Friedman. Other speakers included actress Jill Kargman (star of Bravo TV

Cantor Andrea Rae Markowicz.

series" Odd Mom Out"); Kerry Kennedy (human rights activist); Keisha Rembert (a teacher); Rita Mathias (founding Museum member/docent); Alexandria Coutinho (student at Taft High School); Melissa Forman (radio superstar of 93.9 Lite FM) and Sam Harris (Museum president emeritus). Actress/producer Sharon Stone spoke about an award-winning documentary she had produced about Harris titled "An

Alexandria Coutinho, Student Taft High School.

Educator Keisha Rembert.

Undeniable Voice". A segment followed about the Museum's police training program which brings together officers to teach them about balancing the rights of individuals with the needs of democracy. Detective Marcus Shephard and Officers Tom Hoskinson and Diane Shaw spoke of the training program, "Today, we learned that our uniform is bigger than us."

What an honor and a thrill it was to host this inspiring night! Thank you IHMEC!

Popular pop artist Alexander Glantz (Alexander 23) sang an original song that he dedicated to his "bubby" who was born in a concentration camp. Katie Kadan

Sam Harris, Survivor and IHMEC president emeritus.

closed the show with a powerful rendition of the appropriately named song "Stronger Together" (by Jessica Sanchez). The exciting, action-packed evening raised funds for the Museum's future exhibitions, in-person and virtual field trips for students in under-served communities, training for law enforcement and educational programs for college students. Trust me, if you have never visited this Museum, please take your family. It's located at 9603 Woods Drive in Skokie. It's mission and purpose is so very important for us all. (To learn more about IHMEC, or to donate, click here!) (Watch the SOIRÉE event below!)

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Event co-chairs Michelle Baker and Annette Findling w/ SC president Sherrill Bodine. (Co-chair Cathy Bartholomay missing from this pic). 

And it was another virtual home run for the Service Club of Chicago when this 130-year-old nonprofit

Co-chair Cathy Bartholomay with SC member Marguerite Hark and SC VP Myra Reilly.

hosted "A White House Floral Affair" (aka Hat Luncheon) on September 3. This org is on a winning streak with its virtual fundraising following its successful "Day on the Terrace" event on August 3. "Floral Affair" co-chairs, SC members Cathy Bartholomay, Michelle Baker and Annette Findling, began planning the event in January when the world was young and innocent. They had hoped to host the event in May at the Drake Hotel but Covid had

Watch Party host Kimberly Filan and friends.

other ideas. SC president Sherrill Bodine told everyone, "Everything is on the table except giving up." (Which we all know is the SC's mantra) The afternoon presentation featured the uber-talented, humble, lovely floral designer/author Laura

With Watch Party Hosts Greg Hyder, Jim Smith and Jean Antoniou and friends.

Dowling who was the White House's chief floral designer from 2009 to 2015. After she left this position, she began writing books (her latest being "Bouquets") and participating in charity

Watch Party Host Karen Peters and friends.

events which is where co-chair Annette Findling, luckily, discovered her. During a special VIP presentation a couple of days before the main event, Dowling shared secrets of making the perfect bouquet as she chatted about her days in the White

SC president Sherrill Bodine wearing Lauren Lein.

House. She was filmed live from her beautiful garden behind her 19th century home in Alexandria, Virginia. She recalled a State Dinner for German Chancellor Angela Merkel where she was

Tom Kehoe, Yvette Cusack and Sharyl Mackey.

complimented for her floral color choice, yellow, Merkel's favorite color. She spoke of moving dinners for Wounded Warriors where each of the 10,000 guests received flowers to take home. She also rubbed shoulders with many celebrities who visited the White House, including Martha Stewart, Beyonce (who sang for former First Lady Michelle Obama's 50th BD),

Sheree Valukas at the Marchesa Watch Party.

Prince Harry, Justin Timberlake and many more. During the VIP presentation, Laura arranged bouquets of scented wild basil with dahlias, a sunflower bouquet, a sheaf of wheat with a unique

Francisco Montiel and Marchesa's Nikki Friar.

burlap bow, a vine wreath and a massive hydrangea arrangement in an antique copper pot. She gave us a very cool tip--she mixes faux flowers with real! I loved this idea and can't wait to try it! During a particularly memorable State Dinner, Dowling was invited to meet the Governor of Washington state, Jay Inslee. He was seated next to former President Obama and asked the then-president what he would miss the most about living at the White House and he said, "The flowers." Laura, of course, will never forget THIS remark! (Another tip Laura shared is that she loves to buy basic flowers at Trader Joe's and then mix them with

Dapper Eric Cohler.

ones from local farms.) When asked her thoughts on the new White House Rose Garden re-do by First Lady Melania Trump, Dowling said, "The White House does stay the same but the garden is a living place. I didn't

Keynote speaker and former White House floral designer Laura Dowling.

feel like the flowers in the older garden went together very well. I thought it was a good opportunity to bring the garden up to date. It sounds like there were a lot more rose varieties planted. Each First Family has that chance to make their own changes." During

Chic Watch Party guests at Marchesa.

the main event, on September 3, the Service Club had nearly 200 attendees who tuned in or attended "watch

Cristina Montgomery and Pam Capitanini.

parties" for the event, which remains THE hat luncheon in Chicago! Guests viewed the presentation from Marchesa (with photos by John Reilly), the homes of The Peninsula's Greg Hyder and SC members Mrya Reilly, Kimberly Filan and Karen Peters. The emcee for the day was WGN-TV's Micah Materre, a long-time friend of SC, with expert event production, as always, by Tracey DiBuono of ZZAZZ Productions. Co-chairs opened the event thanking guests and sponsors. President Bodine

Bobbi Panter.

said, "Despite a year in which all of us, and the entire

Emcee Micah Materre (WGN-TV)

world, has had the most profound challenges of a century, in 2020 the SC gave 40 grants to agencies that totaled almost $450,000...SC makes magic happen, in Englewood, Pilsen, from Uptown to Cicero." During the presentation, two of the SC's grantees, Almost Home Kids and The Chicago Lighthouse, appeared on camera thanking the organization for its support. A live auction featured packages donated by Chef Charles Webb, Four Seasons Punta Mita, jeweler John Buechner and Max Mara. Over $75,000 was raised to further the SC's mission of assisting, improving and expanding on agency programs in the Chicagoland area. Its grant recipients operate in the area of social service, cultural, educational and civic fields. (To apply for an SC grant, click here) and to learn more about this nonprofit, or to donate, click here!)

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Nan Giordano and Cesar Salinas wearing multi-purpose GDC masks.

I think, sadly, that masks are here to stay for a while. And, if

Greg Hyder wearing a beloved Cubs mask and a sentimental watch.

this proves to be true, then why not make it fun? I know a lot of chic Chicagoans have already incorporated them into their stylish wardrobes, matching masks to their outfits, wearing masks with a message or just wearing masks because they love and want to support their favorite designers and protect their fellow citizens. I wanted to feature some of my favorites in this latest blog so I asked some of my friends to share their favorite looks. Cathy Bell Bartholomay loves her mask by Sylwia Wilczynska Designs. “I love this mask mostly because it protects me and protects others. I also love

Hair stylist Charles Ifergan.

Sylwia’s “buy one donate one” program, the brainchild of local philanthropist Sherry Lea Fox: it’s yet another way to

MyEyeDr's Michael Caputo wearing a Versace-inspired mask.

give back and pay it forward during these challenging times. Plus, every time I wear this mask, Slywia’s graceful artistry and sublime use of fabric make me smile underneath it...I'll be wearing masks until it is safe not to, which for me means when we have an effective vaccine and COVID 19 is under control. I dearly hope that will be soon. In the meantime, and for however long it takes, I’ll be wearing a mask for myself, for my family

Celebrity chef and Viking range spokesman Jaime Laurita.

and for my friends, as well as for everyone and anyone else,” Cathy said. Hair stylist Charles Ifergan wears a mask with a paw prints pattern, a gift from his daughter Lana who thought this would be a great way to remind him she wants a DOG! Lol! MyEyeDr's Michael Caputo paired his

Mary Lasky wearing a fav mask by Akram Hanna.

Versace-inspired mask (a gift from his L.A. friends) with Versace glasses from, where else, MYEYEDR! Caylei Vogelzang, editor-in-chief of Cancer Wellness mag, loves her mask by Mira Couture. She said, "I think masks are here to stay for the foreseeable future. I imagine that they will become more delicate, form-fitting and functional. I think that we will witness innovations in the textiles that are being used to produce them as well as the structural and aesthetic elements that cause them to look great

Cathy Bell Bartholomay wearing a mask by Sylwia Designs.

and feel fabulous. I am looking forward to seeing what comes down the runways (or virtual runways) this fall." Amanda Puck, Mariano's Strategic Brand Development--"My favorite masks are from Italian designer La Double J. I love them because they are bright, fun and colorful and coordinate with anything! I can also wear them for long periods of time

Amanda Puck wearing mask by La Double J.

whether in the grocery stores, helping in the community, or out visiting local restaurants! We will be wearing masks for the foreseeable future, so let’s make it fun!! My other favorites are from Kehoe Designs and also Sylwia Designs." Sheryl Dyer Schmidt, Van Cleef & Arpels store director, loves masks made by her niece Meghan, especially the one with St. Patrick High School shamrock logo (her husband Joe Schmidt

Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas wears a mask from her friend Joy with her nickname, Dragon Lady.

is president of the school). The Peninsula's Greg Hyder has a closet full of masks, being the style setter that he is. One of his favorites is from his beloved Chicago Cubs (but, believe me, he has one for EVERY occasion!). Giordano Dance Company's Nan Giordano and Cesar Salinas, obviously, love their Giordano masks that can be

Sherry Lea Holson wearing a Sylwia Designs mask.

worn as a scarf or a headband too!  Master Chef Jaime Laurita doesn't have to go far for his colorful masks since his husband Rich Lane, creates them for his Etsy store (Eleven Eleven Concepts!) Maple & Ash's Mary Lasky loves her masks from Akram Hanna Custom Fitting & Alterations at the 900 North Michigan Shops. Jean Antoniou loves her "sippy" mask by Peach Carr and Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas' custom "Dragon Lady" mask was made by

Paula Borg wears a glitzy Sylwia Designs camo mask.

her dear friend Joy. Catie Keogh, half of the popular travel doc duo "Trip Sisters" with her real-life sister Colleen Kelly, loves her mask by Gretchen Scott that she picked up at a locally owned boutique in Michigan City called Darling Boutique. Watch for Catie and Kelly's cool Trip Sisters travel show to return next year. They are also currently digital contributors for National Geographic and

Catie Keogh wears a fav mask by Gretchen Scott.

Travel & Leisure Mag! And last but not least, philanthropist Paula Borg's favorite mask is a sequined, camouflage one by Sylwia Designs. I love the fact that so many designers were willing to pivot to mask-making, not only as an extra source of income, but also to help out essential workers like doctors and

Sheryl Dyer Schmidt wearing a mask from her niece.

nurses. Designers Lauren Lein, Peach Carr, Borris Powell and others delivered them to hospitals and fire stations. Chicago is known as the city of Big Shoulders and nothing proves this more than these current, hard times. People are stepping up and reaching out in ways that make my heart sing. For sure, the rioting and violence can make this world seem so negative but, bright spots like this can certainly turn a frown upside down. I received a surprise

Love my Playboy "Iconic Covers" mask!

package in the mail recently from Playboy. Inside, the silver envelope were two PB masks, one with one of my favorite covers (February 1979) on it (this mask is called "Iconic Covers"), and another pink one with Bunny logos.  The note inside showed me why Playboy has been my ride

Jean Antoniou wearing Peach Carr's sippy mask.

or die "family" for the last 47 years. "Candace, Hope you are doing well & staying safe! Love, Playboy." Thanks to all my trend-setting friends who contributed to this segment!

Playboy will also be coming out with a really cool Instagram app! They sent the link to all the Playmates first for a test drive and I know it's going to be very popular! Take a look here and watch for it, coming soon!

Porchlight Music Theatre hosted PorchlightPalooza, a three-day

Porchlight Icon honoree Joel Grey.

virtual festival Friday, Aug. 21 - Sunday, Aug. 23,  in lieu of its cancelled March 23 ICONS GALA. This new virtual 25th Anniversary celebration raised over $220,000 and included performances from Chicago’s best talents, highlights from its award-winning history, celebrity greetings and well wishes, the presentation of the Luminary Award to Elaine Cohen and Arlen D. Rubin and culminated on Sunday, Aug. 23, with an exclusive interview hosted by legendary newsman Bill Kurtis with Porchlight’s 2020 ICON Award recipient  Joel Grey.  (PorchlightPalooza is currently available for viewing on Porchlight’s YouTube page.)  Porchlight's Executive Director Jeannie Lukow said, “PorchlightPalooza, due to its virtual format, was able to reach our loyal Porchlight fans and expand to a national

Much loved Bill Kurtis conducted Q&A with Joel Grey.

audience. In terms of attendance and donations, we have exceeded any previous Porchlight gala in our 25 year history.” She continued, “The response shown for PorchlightPalooza from our audience and people new to Porchlight has been unanimously positive.” Artistic Director Michael Weber added, “Trying this new format was a massive undertaking for all of us and we could not be more proud of the final result. From following social distance guidelines for filming to undertaking new technology and editing three days of one hour shows; PorchlightPalooza is something we could not be more proud of.” Event co-chairs Rick and Deann Bayless and Bill Kurtis and Donna La Pietra shared their highlights from this weekend. “We are so proud of what Porchlight has accomplished,” La Pietra said. “We have been planning the March gala for more than a year and had to change the entire format and evening due

Michelle Lauto, Missy Aguilar and Lucy Godinez.

to COVID-19. With PorchlightPalooza, we were able to still host three nights of a great event that I was able to enjoy from home

Lorenzo Rush Jr, lighting design by Rachel West.

with Bill and all my friends, virtually.” Deann Bayless commented, “As Rick and I watched each night, singing along to each number which would not be allowed normally, we could not prevent ourselves from smiling the entire time! Porchlight’s artists and staff provided three unforgettable nights of entertainment that I cannot get out of my head.” PorchlightPalooza artists included Brian Acker, Adrian Aguilar, Missy Aguilar, Charissa Armon, Neala Barron, Jayson Brooks, Caron Buinis, Lydia Burke, E. Faye Butler, Matt Crowle, Andres Enriquez, Erica Evans, David Girolmo, Lucy Godinez, Cory Goodrich, Frederick Harris, Jermaine Hill, Callie Johnson,

Dancers Christopher Kelly, Erica Evans, Joey Stone and Laura Savage (Middle row, L to R) Linda Madonia, Rafe Bradford and Lior Shragg; (Lighting design by Rachel West and dancers' costumes designed by Bill Morey.)

Donterrio Johnson, James Earl Jones II, Christopher Kelley,  Heidi Kettenring, Michelle Lauto, John Marshall, Jr., Alexis J Roston, Lorenzo Rush Jr, Laura Savage, Stephanie Stockstill, Joey Stone, Bethany Thomas and Gene Weygandt. The weekend also shared well wishes and greetings from artists saluting Grey's influence on music theatre including Bob Balaban, Patrick Cassidy, Kristin Chenoweth, Raul Esparza, cast members from the recent off-Broadway revival of Fiddler on the Roof, Josh Gad, Larry Grossman, John Kander, Tom Kitt, David Mamet, Joe Mantegna, Howard McGillin, Mandy Patinkin, Benj Pasek, Tonya Pinkins, Bernadette Peters, Lonny Price, Chita Rivera, Susan Sampliner, Susan Stroman, Paul Oakley Stovall, Ben Vereen, Bruce Villanch, Stephen Wallem and Maury Yeston.

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Jim Belushi debuts his CBD product at Greenhouse opening.

GREENHOUSE celebrated the opening of its 15,000-sq-ft flagship CBD dispensary in Skokie on September 3. The afternoon had a definite Blues Brothers vibe as actor Jim Belushi (founder of Belushi's Farm) debuted his Blues Brothers X Grassroots product line to much fanfare, arriving in the famed Bluesmobile with two fellow "Blues

Greenhouse Grand Opening in Skokie.

Brothers" (Mitch Kahn, CEO of Greenhouse and Chris Karakosta, GM of Belushi's Farm and Jim's cousin). The CBD dispensary officially opened at 1000 Skokie Blvd. with a ribbon cutting ceremony in partnership with the Skokie

Belushi and friends arrive at the Greenhouse opening in the famous Bluesmobile that was featured in the 1980 film, "The Blues Brothers."

Chamber of Commerce that was followed by outdoor activities. Belushi's home-grown collaboration, developed at cultivation facilities owned by leading cannabis company Curaleaf, celebrates the 40th anniversary of the iconic Blues Brothers franchise. Located across from Old Orchard Mall, Greenhouse was designed by architects Peter Theodore and Stephen Coorlas, and built by Chicago based Pacific Construction. The architecturally focused exterior boasts a curtain-like facade with expansive windows, bringing natural light and warmth into the space. The two-level interior,  designed by Epoch Design Group, was deliberately configured to offer a premium,

Mitch Kahn (Greenhouse), Chris Karakosta (Belushi's Farm) and Jim Belushi. 

curated customer experience, with a large focus on educational displays throughout the space. The second floor, accessible via a lift as well as a spectacular curved staircase, will be dedicated to in-depth consultations with trained product specialists as well as online pre-order pick up. Available products include flower, vapes, extracts/oils, topicals, concentrates and edibles. During the opening festivities, Belushi (who was scheduled to be joined by Dan Akroyd

Linda Goldman (Skokie Chamber of Commerce), Jon Terzia (Skokie Chamber of Commerce), Talley Wettlaufer (Greenhouse) and Mitch Kahn (Greenhouse).

who couldn't come in from Canada due to Covid restrictions) played the harmonica and signed autographs for fans. Over 600 people attended over the course of the day including Christie Hefner, Rick Kogan, Mitch Kahn (CEO & Co-Founder of Greenhouse), Boris Jordan (Executive Chairman of Curaleaf), SNL alum Tim Kazurinsky, Gregg Steinberg (of Belushi’s Farm), Chris Karakosta, Akele Parnell, Khadijah Tribble and Bob Jersey. (For more info, click here!)

 

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Put this film on your watch list! "Foster Boy" is a heart-wrenching drama about the painful, corrupt parts of the ‘for-profit’ foster care system – but also a story of

Matthew Modine, Krystian Alexander Wyttle, Jay Paul Deratany and Shane Paul McGhie.

redemption, justice and change. Starring Matthew Modine, Louis Gossett Jr. and newcomer, Shane Paul McGhie, the movie is being released nationwide in theaters and VOD on September 25. Michael Trainer (Matthew Modine)  is a lawyer at the center of a trial in which a for-profit foster care agency puts a known sex offender into the same foster home as his young client Jamal (Shane Paul McGhie), with catastrophic results. Michael, a successful litigator with a long career in protecting corporate clients, has been blinded from recognizing the real damage they can cause. He wants nothing to do with Jamal's case until a Judge forces him to accept it. Initially he sees

Film backer Thom Lipari, Jay Paul Deratany, producer Shaquille O’Neal, co-producer Mary Beth O’Connor.

Jamal, as a thuggish African American youth trying to get a piece of corporate profits. But when Jamal refuses to settle the case for any amount of money, Michael begins his representation in earnest. As their work together reveals the horrifying depth of the corrupt and abusive for-profit foster care agency, Michael is transformed from reluctant defender to fierce

Matthew Modine and Louis Gossett Jr. in "Foster Boy."

warrior in the battle for justice. Dolly Parton was so moved by the film that she wrote a special song for it. The film was co-produced and written by Chicago attorney/screen writer Jay Paul Deratany. Film-

Foster Boy's Shane Paul McGhie.

backer Shaquille O'Neal said, "Foster kids are not just someone else's kids, they're our kids. There is so much we can do to help them, but it all starts with shining a light on their circumstances. That's why I am so proud to be an

Lex Scott Davis in "Foster Boy."

executive producer of the film, Foster Boy." Writer/producer Deratany added, "I'm honored that Shaquille is part of the team. The atrocities and abuse of power within the for-profit foster care system are real. The movie is based on several of my cases. These kids deserve so much better. It is my hope that "Foster Boy" will bring positive change." There will be a pre-premiere screening of this multi-award winning film at the Chi Town Movies Drive-In in Pilsen, Wednesday, September 16! Get tickets here! And to watch the powerful trailer, click here. (You can pre-order the movie On Demand too) Congrats to all involved with this film and thanks for bringing this important information to light.

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The Rush Woman's Board will host its Fall Benefit on Friday, October 2 at 6:30 pm. This year the Benefit has been re-imagined as a virtual event featuring a wine tasting and live jazz performances. Originally, it was planned as a festive cocktail party to be held at Theater on the Lake in Lincoln Park, but, of course, COVID.  The

Fall Benefit 2020 Co-Chairs - Elizabeth Bigelow, Gwen Geller and Wendy Herb.

co-chairs, Wendy Herb, Elizabeth Bigelow, and Gwen Geller, had considered canceling the event altogether, but the need at Rush is even greater right now due to the pandemic, so they wanted to find a way to make it work virtually. Funds raised will go to the Woman's Board Transformation Fund, which supports the Rush Cancer Center. The deadline for ticket sales is September 23. (Click here for info/tickets!)

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This month, the AIDS Foundation of Chicago (AFC) is inviting Chicagoans to move “Forward Together” for the 19th annual AIDS Run & Walk. For the first time, the week-long event – kicking off on Monday, Sept. 28 - will feature 5K and 10K routes throughout various Chicago neighborhoods including Hyde Park, Uptown, the Loop and more to promote safety and minimize crowds. The AIDS Run & Walk will conclude at Soldier Field on Oct. 3 and raise vital funds and awareness for AFC, in addition to more than 20 community partner organizations that provide programs and services for those living with or vulnerable to HIV, AIDS and other chronical illness. (To register, click here)

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Join TPAN and Kiki Queens for DINING OUT FOR LIFE CHICAGO on Thursday, Sept. 24! Dine in, order takeout or delivery from one of the restaurant partners and make a personal gift to support TPAN’s mission to serve people affected by HIV. Tune in LIVE on Facebook to watch an evening hosted by the Queens on Sept. 24, 6-8 pm! Proud to be a co-chair with Sean Lewis and Amy Lawless and stand by our LGBTQ and HIV-affected communities, in one of the most important meals you’ll have all year! Here's how you can help: 1) SIGN UP as a Virtual Ambassador! Encourage your friends to get involved. 2) DINE on 9/24! Choose one of our restaurant partners and either dine in, order takeout or delivery. Then watch KiKi Queens! 3) DONATE directly to TPAN. They won’t rely on restaurant donations so individual gifts are all the more important this year! 4) SHARE your support on social media! Tag your restaurant, Dining Out for Life Chicago, and use the hashtag #DOFLChi.

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Misericordia's Heart of Mercy Ball and Artist in All events are going virtual! The venue has changed but the show must go on! Please join the Misericordia Siblings Association as they host their annual silent auction, "The Artist in All," virtually this year. Celebrate the courage and optimism of Misericordia's resident artists who have worked hard on their masterpieces and can't wait to show them off! The online showcase will include paintings, ceramics/3D art, photography and jewelry, all available for online bidding. Congrats in advance to SIBs president Kelly Mayer, event chairs Caitlin Deptula, Bob and Jim Snediker, co-chair Sheila Canavan, Bill Meyer, Julie Sullivan and presenting sponsor The Mazza Foundation. To view the offerings (and/or to donate), click here! Also, mark your calendars for Misericordia's Heart of Mercy Ball, also going virtual this year on October 14 at 6 pm! Join the Women's Board and co-chairs Jackie Kissane and Susan Baker, as they host an enchanted evening to raise awareness and financial support for the children and adults of Misericordia Home. (Details here!)

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Friends of Prentice will host its Annual Friends of Prentice Benefit as a virtual event - Still Together, At Home on Saturday, October 24. The event will honor our healthcare community while raising critical funds for medical research on an even greater scale to support the future of women’s healthcare. Thanks to its supporters, they have been able to provide crucial support to projects that benefit women, infants, and families in our immediate communities and across the globe. Please check out ways to give here and register for the event here!

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Gilda's Club Chicago will host "Yes, and...An Improvised Gala" on Friday, Sept. 25 at 6 pm. Hosted by Jon Harris and Larry Wert, the event will include performances by current Second City cast members, appearances by Second City alums and live musical performances and surprise guest appearances. Gilda’s Club was established in honor of Second City’s own Gilda Radner who was diagnosed with cancer in 1985 and passed away in 1989. Gilda’s Club provides free emotional and social support to anyone impacted by cancer. Funds raised at this benefit will support the creation of virtual programs that bring the service directly into the member’s home. (To register and/or donate, click here)

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It looks like some events will be virtual even moving into December! This year, WITS (Working in the Schools) will replace its large-scale Blackboard Affair gala with an Alice in Wonderland themed virtual fundraiser called The UnGala on Thursday, December 10 at 7:30 pm. The UnGala, which will be streamed into your home, is an opportunity for the Chicago community to come together to support students and teachers and to celebrate the work of WITS, ensuring that it remains a part of the Chicago education community and is there for our students and schools for future generations. (To register (for free) and/or donate, click here!)

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The Museum of Science and Industry will host a virtual gala, "Age of Invention," on Saturday, October 10. The event will support the Museum's education programs and initiatives. To register, click here!  

The National Kidney Foundation of Illinois (NKFI) will host its virtual 35^th annual “Gift of Life Gala: Coming Together As A Team” on Thursday, October 29 at 6:00 pm. The evening will benefit the NKFI mission to improve the health and well-being of those at risk or affected by kidney disease through free screening programs and community health initiatives in Illinois. NKFI, along with Chicago White Sox Charities, will honor the memory of legendary broadcaster and pitcher Ed Farmer, posthumously, with the “Gift of Life Award.” Illinois Secretary of State Jesse White will present the award to Darrin Jackson, WGN radio broadcaster, who will accept the award on behalf of his late radio partner. Pat Tomasulo, sports anchor and reporter at WGN-TV, will serve as master of ceremonies and host the evening’s events. (For tickets, $150, and more info, click here!)

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Don't forget, October 3 is a very special date for A Silver Lining Foundation (ASLF) as its "A Sterling Event" annual fundraiser will be going virtual! What an evening it will be too, starting with a 6:30 reception complete with special celebrity guest bartender Micah Materre and an ask-me-anything segment hosted by an internationally recognized sommelier. At 7:00, the

Mark Roscoe directing Opal Staples and friends in music video for ASLF.

event officially kicks-off with WGN TV’s Paul Lisnek as emcee. ASLF is beyond excited to introduce the premiere performance of, "I Believe," ASLF’s anthem performed by the talented Opal Staples and produced and directed by Mark Roscoe. This will be a virtual fundraiser unlike any other – complete with celebrity toasts, videos and information about the mission and impact of the foundation. The evening will include exciting silent and live auctions with Jim Miller on hand to lead the charge! Most importantly, all proceeds will support the programs of the foundation, in particular, Buy A Mom A Mammogram, which funds cost-free breast health testing for uninsured, underinsured, undocumented women and men and for those who have lost their jobs and health insurance due to the pandemic. To register, please click here!

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Mercy Housing will host a virtual celebration on Wednesday, September 23. "Moving Forward Together" will feature a timely conversation on the critical impact of housing on health and help raise awareness and resources for quality affordable housing in our region for those in need. To date, thanks to community partners and supporters, Mercy Housing Lakefront is able to provide affordable housing and supportive services to more than 8,000 residents in Illinois, Indiana, and Wisconsin. To register and for more info, click here!

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Love and thanks to all of the wonderful friends and

Rooney Rules came in 3rd and was happy just to be nominated, NOT, he wanted to win.

supporters who kept voting for Rooney Rules in the recent PAWS Chicago's Vanity Fur Pet Contest. It was such a darling way to raise awareness for this, the largest No-Kill animal shelter in the Midwest. Rooney didn't win but he received honorable mention. (To hear/see his concession speech (lol), click here!)

I hope you're all holding up during these (still) very trying times. I worry about our dining scene when the weather becomes cooler. One popular and much loved restaurateur said he "spent the whole morning praying for the future." I think we all feel the same. We try to dine in/out/or carry out as much as we can but we've been negatively affected by all of this too. We even spent an afternoon researching places to live in the suburbs. We don't want to move but circumstances here may cause us to do otherwise. I don't want to live in fear, nor do I want to see all the stores, restaurants and mom-and-pop shops leave the area, which was one of the reasons we loved living downtown. We took a drive around the city over the weekend and it was a ghost town. People's nerves are still frayed and everyone seems to be waiting for the next shoe to drop. My husband described it as "Berlin after WWII." I don't know when or how this is all going to change, but like the restaurateur, we pray it's soon.

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And now, on a brighter note, I'm thrilled to see the nonprofit community pivoting to virtual with such success! And, although it's infinitely better to gather together in person, the recent events I've been a part of have done really well financially and visually. It seems the supporters of each nonprofit know they have to step up or give up. And, as the Service Club's president Sherrill Bodine said, "Quitting is not an option."

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

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