Candid Candace

THE NONPROFIT ISSUE: WHAT SOME OF OUR FAVORITES HAVE PLANNED FOR 2021

We are all suffering in one way or another during these strange times. People in the restaurant industry, the arts, design and the nonprofit communities are the ones that first come to mind for me. I guess because I have dear friends in all of these categories and know of so many who have lost their jobs and businesses or who are struggling. I'm thrilled the restaurants and bars have partially reopened but we still have a long way to go. The  nonprofits, to me, are the backbone of our city, maybe because I've worked with so many of them for so long. They help prop up the most vulnerable and even our homeless pets find care, comfort and protection through them. Since 2008, I've been writing about and promoting charities and events that are close to my heart. I want to put them in the spotlight now, so I quizzed some of my favorites to find out what they were planning for 2021. Please take note. Some have a whole calendar filled with a variety of fundraisers while others have nothing planned. It's a new normal that some are having difficulty navigating. However, I've included as many as I could and I hope you will mark your calendars for their events as well as share them across your social media. I've been asked on many occasions how people can get involved and which charities I would recommend. All of the ones listed below are well vetted and wonderful. And, if you don't have money to donate, there are many other ways to become involved, including volunteerism. Websites are included for each organization, so reach out to the one/ones that touch your heart. And, if your nonprofit's events aren't listed below, be sure to send them to Candace@CandidCandace.com for the next edition. I'm determined to make all of your voices heard moving into the New Year. (Events/nonprofits are mentioned in no particular order below, and they all need our help).

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 Chicago Children’s Choir, a nonprofit that inspires and unites youth from diverse backgrounds to become global ambassadors through music, will present its free virtual Black  History Month concert, Preserving and Persevering, on Thursday, Feb. 25 at 7 p.m.

Chicago Children's Choir.

CT. Exploring how the power of Black music has been 

Chicago Children's Choir, live onstage on national TV.

the cultural key in both preserving African traditions in America and in helping millions persevere in the face of racial injustice, the concert is curated by CCC’s Director of African Diasporic Music and Studies Lonnie Norwood and includes performances from the Voice of Chicago, Dimension and Neighborhood Choir singers. And on Saturday, Sept. 26, the CCC will present "Reverberations" (formerly Red Jacket Optional Gala). Kudos also to conductor/pianist/singer Josephine Lee and her CCC for their recent live appearance on the Late Show with Stephen Colbert. They performed alongside Chance the Rapper, Chicago Youth Symphony Orchestras, Kofi Lost, Peter CottonTale and Cynthia Erivo. (Details here!)

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One Tail at a Time executive director Heather Owen and friend.

One Tail at a Time's Houndstooth Ball is set for Friday, November 19. This wonderful animal rescue saves homeless dogs and cats with their goal, this year, being 2,250 rescues. They will also focus on growing their outreach and support programs in big ways for Chicago pet families struggling to make ends meet. Please check out the details here!

The Union League Boys & Girls Clubs are celebrating its 102nd year of mentoring the next generation to become leaders in their communities, particularly those who are underserved. Despite Covid, this nonprofit wants you to know that they are still offering a safe and spacious home to its Club's youth for e-learning. Save the date for February 25 for their annual (virtual) Youth of the Year event! (Details here!)  

PAWS Chicago, the largest No Kill animal shelter in the Midwest, has several events

PAWS Chicago, adoptable cats and dogs.

planned. At this point, they're not sure if the summer Beach Party will be virtual or a smaller, in-person event at the Castaways but I will keep you posted. In the meantime, mark these events on your calendar! Virtual Trivia Night, Thursday, February 25 ($5 minimum donation to participate); Virtual Mutt Madness, fundraising/adoption event in which 32 dogs and 32 cats work their way through a 6 round tourney ala an NCAA tourney, March 11-18; Inaugural Golf Outing, Monday, June 14, at the Westmoreland Country Club in Winnetka; PAWS Chicago Beach Party, August (date TBD); PAWS Chicago 5K/Walk/Run, September (date TBD); PAWS 20th annual Fur Ball, November 12 (location TBD); Team PAWS (fall). (Check website here for more event info and to register).

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Each year, the Illinois Holocaust Museum hosts one of the largest fundraisers in Chicago and welcomes over 2,000 civic, business, and community leaders in support of the Museum’s educational outreach. On March 10, 2021, former NBA Star & Activist Kareem Abdul-Jabbar will be the keynote speaker of the 2021 Humanitarian Awards Dinner. During the virtual and in-person event, the Humanitarian Award will be presented to Exelon Corporation, accepted by CEO Chris Crane and Scott Swanson, president of PNC Bank, Illinois, for their demonstrated commitment to educate current and future generations about the Holocaust and the dangers of hatred, prejudice, and indifference. Zev and Shifra Karkomi will be honored posthumously with the Survivor Legacy Award to recognize their vision and support in creating the Karkomi Holocaust Exhibition - a cornerstone of the Museum. (Dinner details here.) For the Women's Leadership Committee's signature event, SOIRÉE, I'm thrilled to be returning as host! This annual event typically brings together guests for a spirited evening filled with socializing, silent auction bidding, and entertainment. It raises funds to support the Museum’s mission to combat hatred, prejudice, and indifference and to inspire visitors to become Upstanders who speak out for what’s right – turning powerful lessons of history into positive actions today. The 2021 event is scheduled for Wednesday, September 1^, and will likely be a hybrid of in-person and virtual. I hope you can join us! (Details here!) Two new, BIG exhibitions are coming up too, “Mandela: Struggle for Freedom" (Feb. 2021 - Sept. 2021) and "Rise Up: Stonewall and the LGBTQ Rights Movement" (Oct. 2021 - May 2022).

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The Service Club's All-In Zoom meeting with over 100 members celebrating their record-breaking fundraising success.

The Service Club of Chicago certainly didn't let a pandemic slow down its fundraising efforts! They broke two records this year -- in their 131 year history! The SC held its most profitable Gala ever -- and also raised the most revenue overall to distribute through its Philanthropic Grant Program, an all-time high of $ 621,632.28! For the coming year, they're still going full steam ahead! First, the Spring Hat Luncheon, which is hopefully scheduled for May (in person, hybrid or maybe a combo); Day on the Terrace will be the first Monday in August at the Peninsula; the Gala will be held at the Four Seasons on November 5 and their Holiday Luncheon will be back in the beautiful dining room of the University Club on December 1. As president Sherrill Bodine stated, "We will never surrender our mission to help make Chicago a better place in which to live."  (Donate/learn more, here!)

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Hyde Park Art Center, the non-profit hub for contemporary art located on Chicago’s South Side, will present socially-distant exhibitions throughout the coming year that highlight Chicago’s diverse art scene featuring emerging and established artists. While all time-frames are subject to change, visual arts fans can expect the following: FEBRUARY will see the opening of a trio of exhibitions: Ground Floor, a biennial that features some of Chicago’s most promising emerging talent from area MFA (Master of Fine Arts) graduate programs; Cuts & Beats, a solo multi-media exhibition by Cecil McDonald, Jr.; and Next Window, Please!, showcasing young adult artists from the Art Center’s Teen Program. THIS SPRING, artist Gabriel Villa translates the language of Mexican traditions and the personal urban American experience into charged intimate narratives in The Metamorphosis of Gabriel Villa while artist Faheem Majeed creates a new installation that focuses on the history of the historic South Side Community Art Center, in Faheem Majeed: Planting and Maintaining a Perennial Garden IV. SUMMER will bring Future Fossils: SUM, the final major sculpture installation in a trilogy of work by Lan Tuazon. And note that every month on the first Sunday, the Hyde Park Art Center hosts Center Sundays, a free public program introducing ongoing offerings at the Art Center for all ages, interests and skill levels, which is now being held virtually but soon will return to in-person. For more information on all, click here!

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Some members of the Merit School of Music performing.

Merit School of Music, for over 40 years, has been dedicated to helping young people transform their lives by providing equal access to a high-quality music education, with nearly 70 percent of students benefiting from need-based financial aid and low-cost instrument rental. Merit will host its 42^nd annual benefit Gala, honoring Lyric Opera of Chicago Music Director and Principal Conductor Sir Andrew Davis as he concludes his two-decade-long Lyric tenure. Davis will receive Merit’s Alice S. Pfaelzer Award for Distinguished Service to the Arts at the virtual Gala celebration in mid-May (date TBC).  Plus, Merit will be offering both online and in-person options for its summer line-up of camps, classes, electives and workshops. Merit School of Music’s online summer camps and classes help students, from early childhood through high school, to stay social, creative, and engaged with their instrument from the comfort of home or in a socially-distanced small group environment. Summer registration opens in May; more information can be found here.  

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Misericordia, that fabulous place that provides love, caring and comfort, since 1921, for those with intellectual and developmental disabilities, is hosting a few fun events this year! I'm super excited to support this amazing nonprofit via video for their Women's Auxiliary - All You Need is Love event with a wine theme happening on February 12. And don't miss the Women's League - Heart of Gold, Night at the Races event with a Kentucky Derby theme happening on February 26. Love Sister Rosemary and Lois!

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Some of the inspiring members of Giordano Dance Chicago.

Giordano Dance Chicago, one of the premiere jazz dance companies in the world, has some exciting highlights for 2021. The Nan Giordano Certification Program® continues virtually in March with dance educators from around the globe. And on June 13-18, the Giordano Workshop goes virtual! GDC will bring its high energy technique and repertoire into people’s homes and studios around the world. Artistic director Nan Giordano said, "While operations have slowed due to COVID-19, we have taken the opportunity to engage in a strategic planning process to strengthen our organization and ensure we emerge from this time better than ever!" And I know they will! Follow them along here!

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The Joffrey Ballet, like many other dance companies, have had to cancel performances due to Covid. Luckily, they have a deep well of material to choose from as well as the creativity and artistic talent to create something new and suitable for the times. Their main goal is to stay afloat financially, which they have managed to do so far through significant budget cuts and a $12 million fundraising

The Joffrey Ballet rehearses Bolero.

campaign. They plan to return to the Lyric Opera House this fall with a full 2021–22 season. Their strategy, for now, is to create short, studio performances and footage that artistic director Ashley Wheater says “pulls back the curtain” on the rehearsals and staging like they did with their recent online "Nutcracker" production. Originally created for its spring gala, "Bolero" is the company's latest offering, a 16-minute one-act production that is ideal for online viewers who, like me, have short attention spans. Here's to more Joffrey greatness in the coming year! (Follow their event and production schedule here)

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Congo Square Theatre Company, one of the nation’s premier African American theatres (they worked with a young playwright named Chadwick Boseman before he was a household name), has pivoted to digital programming for their 21st season. Coming up is their three-day arts celebration Festival on the Square from Feb. 4-6, culminating with the 2021 Vision Benefit honoring founding board chair Les Coney and the company’s first director, Ron OJ Parson. Ongoing is the theater’s new digital sketch comedy show Hit ‘Em on the Blackside, currently available for free viewing on their website with new episodes starting in March. More information here!

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Chicago Dance History Project participants.

On January 31, the Chicago Dance History Project will host a Marathon Interview with the world's leaders in dance--7 hours of interviews with amazing dance people from all over the world (Twyla Tharp, Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater’s Robert Battle, Lou Conte, Ashley Wheater and many, many more). Info and sign up here.  

 

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The Music Institute’s 90th Anniversary Gala is scheduled Monday, May 10 starting at 6 p.m. in a virtual format with some live components (pending pandemic restrictions) for a limited number of guests at Nichols Concert Hall. The Dushkin Award, which for 35 years has been bestowed upon some of the world’s most accomplished musicians, will be presented to Maestro Zubin Mehta. (There will also be a Cultural Visionary Award and a Richard D. Coburn Award for Teaching Excellence—recipients TBD.) Proceeds go toward scholarships and financial assistance for music instruction through the Music Institute’s Community Music School, which leads people toward a lifelong engagement with music by providing widely accessible resources for high-quality music teaching, performing, and service activities. (All info here!)

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Chicago Dancers United is making plans for the 30th anniversary of its annual fundraiser Dance for Life, which supports The Dancers’ Fund assisting those with diagnosed critical health needs (expanded this past year to cover routine medical expenses due to the pandemic). The hope is for a live, outdoor event some time in August, more details to come soon! (Check their website here for upcoming plans!)

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The Jackson Chance Foundation is hoping you'll join them for the Owl Ride for Jackson, a two-day 111-mile round-trip bike ride from Chicago to Valparaiso, IN. taking off from Chicago’s lakefront on Saturday, Aug. 21 through Sunday, Aug. 22 . The route serves up breathtaking views

Jackson Chance Foundation founders Carrie and Terry Meghie.

and scenic bike trails to Valparaiso with bikers riding 55.5 miles on day one. Enjoy a complimentary dinner and an evening in Valpo and then another 55.5 miles day 2 back to Chicago. With a mix of rolling terrain and a few punchy climbs it offers something for cyclists of all abilities. (A one-day option is also available.) All riders are invited to enjoy a post-ride celebration on Sunday including dinner, treats and massages! Proceeds from Owl Ride for Jackson benefit JCF’s NICU Transportation Program which partners with Ann & Robert H. Lurie Children’s Hospital, Northwestern Prentice Women’s Hospital and Rush University Children’s Hospital to provide complimentary parking passes for families with critically ill babies in the NICU. Challenge yourself or enjoy the ride while impacting so many families when they need it most. Register today here! 

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Chicagoan Lauren Schrero is co-founder and executive director of The Nora Project. When Lauren’s daughter was born disabled, she became inspired to create a place for disability studies in every child’s education and launched The Nora Project to help create a more inclusive and accepting world. (Watch Lauren’s TED Talk about the program, here)  Next month, The Nora Project is celebrating its 4th annual Friendship February, a charitable effort that challenges community members to commit to 28 days of friendship, kindness and inclusion. As we head into nearly 12 months of pandemic lockdown, it’s a great time to spread friendship and kindness as many continue to face hardship, emotional distress and COVID-19 fatigue. To see a complete list of Friendship February Challenges and get a sense of what this campaign is all about, see video below.  Beyond Friendship February, The Nora Project supports local schools and communities year-round and brings students of all abilities together to teach empathy, demystify disability and promote inclusive beliefs and practices in school and beyond. Friendship February is an extension of these programs, and part of the campaign proceeds will provide grants to partner schools to make inclusion improvements like adding ramps, diversifying library books, and making all kids feel more included and welcome. (All info here!)

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Girl Scouts of Greater Chicago Area and Northwest Indiana (GCNWI) and Girl Scouts of the USA (GSUSA) kicked off the 2021 Girl Scout Cookie season nationally, during a challenging time when many Girl Scouts are selling in creative, socially distant, and contact-free ways to keep themselves and their customers safe. Even in light of Covid, girls are adapting their sales methods to share the joy of Girl Scout Cookies through the largest girl-led entrepreneurship program—including taking contact-free pickup and delivery orders through a new national collaboration with Grubhub. Additionally, GCNWI has made online cookie ordering available so consumers who don’t know a Girl Scout can still purchase cookies from a local troop for direct shipment to their homes or donation to local organizations. If you don't know a Girl Scout to order from, click here! 

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Since 1974, Ronald McDonald House Charities have been providing a home away from home and resources to families who travel far from home for the medical care their child needs. To date, RMHC around the world have provided 2.5 million overnight stays for families with nearly 700 programs in 65+ countries and regions. In the Chicago region, they learned a lot in 2020, and have adapted their lineup of special events to be more inclusive by incorporating both in-person and virtual components to each experience. Mark your calendars for the following: Annual Golf Classic, Wed., June 9; Annual Gala, Saturday, Aug. 7; Sporting Clays Tournament, September 24/25 and Paint the Night, Sunday, Feb. 7. (Find further details and buy tickets here!)

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The Chicago History Museum reopens to the public on March 4, the city's birthday! AND its fundraising arm, the Costume Council of the CHM, will present a zoom presentation on Thursday, February 25, with one of my favorite designers, Norma Kamali. Norma will discuss her new book, "Norma Kamali: I Am Invincible" and registrants will receive a gift box that includes a signed copy of the book, her Normalife Skinline Kit and more! Costume Council Patron Members and "Head to Toe Annual Appeal Donors" of $50 or more will receive a complimentary invitation to the Zoom lecture. All proceeds benefit the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum. (Tickets/more details here!)   

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The Lynn Sage Breast Cancer Foundation and the Lynn Sage Foundation have merged to become the Lynn Sage Breast Cancer Foundation. With 35 years of success, this old/new org will continue to fight breast cancer by funding research to find cures and raising awareness about prevention and screening. Click here to for event updates. I was told their uber-popular Fall Benefit Luncheon will probably be virtual again this year but they had great success with this in 2020 (the event was hosted by Hoda), so I can't wait to hear of all the fun they have planned this year! (I'll share the details when they're available!)

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A Silver Lining Foundation has an exciting line-up of events for 2021! For spring, they are planning a celeb-filled virtual fundraiser sometime in May. Details are still being ironed out. In the summer "Tasting Stars" will return on June 19, benefiting the programs and services provided by this

Dr. Sandy Goldberg and Greg Hines.

wonderful nonprofit in its efforts to ensure everyone can afford a mammogram and have access to all the services. For fall, the 17th annual "A Sterling Event" will take place on Saturday, October 2. This is the Foundation's largest fundraiser and it's being planned as a hybrid experience featuring live and remote access to what will most certainly be a memorable evening. Proceeds from all of these events will provide life-saving breast health testing to uninsured, underinsured and, most recently, to those who have lost their health insurance due to the pandemic. I hope you can join us for ALL! (Details here!) (The charity was recently spotlighted by The Ford Motor Company in its "Built For" campaign for doing "meaningful and essential work throughout America.")

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The Big Shoulders Fund has been serving the communities since 1986, supporting Catholic schools in the neediest areas of inner-city Chicago. Through scholarship support and a variety of programs, BSF provides children in need access to a quality, values-based education. Reopening school buildings (75 inner-city schools) safely in August was a huge task, and teachers and principals were nimble and innovative in determining how best they could continue to meet the needs of their students in the COVID-19 era. Now in 2021, their work continues. Upcoming fundraising events will further these efforts by providing much needed scholarship and operational support. Big Shoulders is continuing to plan for its upcoming events and will host them in some capacity, whether in person, hybrid or virtual as safety guidelines advise. The large fundraisers for the year will include: Humanitarian Award Dinner, Friday, May 21, 6 pm; Golf Classic, Monday, August 9, 8:30 am, Check-in and 11 am shotgun start. Olympia Fields Country Club; Big Shoulders Fund Ball, Friday, October 1. And, in the coming months, they will also be hosting a number of other events such as: Scholar Events/Activities, Virtual Student Activities, Programming--CapitalOne Coding, Junior League Art Club, How to be an Entrepreneur; Virtual events that will include special speakers, dance classes, field trips to museums, and on January 29, Chicago Sky’s Cheyenne Parker is speaking to elementary and high school students in a fun special assembly; Volunteers from companies like KPMG, Houlihan Lokey, etc. reading books, doing career panels and playing jeopardy learning games with students virtually; Scholar events/opportunities; Scholar tours and learning sessions with the Chicago History Museum; High School Scholar Symposium where students learn about trending careers, applying to college and for financial aid, what it means to be a scholar athlete and so much more in a fun virtual and video based event; They will continue to have guest speakers (Chris Gardner is scheduled) speak to students on a variety of topics from careers to life skills; Big Shoulders Fund Supporter Activities; Networking speaker events included one for the kick-off to their Black History Month Book Club where next generation board members and high school scholars read and discussed “Strides Toward Freedom, The Montgomery Story"  which was moderated by State Representative Curtis Tarver. (For more info, click here!)

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Established in 1985, WINGS is one of the biggest domestic violence programs in the Midwest. This nonprofit provides a pathway to independence for people whose lives have been disrupted by domestic violence by providing housing, integrated services, education and advocacy. It has big plans for the coming year that include these events and programs: WINGS Metro 5-Year Anniversary Celebration on Thursday, February 11, 5:30pm--Join a virtual cocktail hour when WINGS will share stories and videos to highlight the history and impact of WINGS Metro which, when it opened, was the first new shelter for victims of domestic violence to open in Chicago in more than 10 years.  Since it opened, WINGS Metro has provided 59,919 nights of critical emergency shelter and served 815 domestic violence survivors, including 410 children. (Spotlighting a special thank you to WINGS Board member Amy Rule and Rahm Emanual, who as Mayor, led the plan to establish WINGS Metro, and donated $25,000 to mark this anniversary.)  Register here for FREE . ($2,500+ donors will receive a cocktail party kit to enjoy during this virtual celebration); WINGS Sports Luncheon, June 2021, Exact date TBD, Four Seasons Hotel in Chicago, 11:00am to 1:30pm--A Conversation with Chicago’s sports team owners George McCaskey , Michael Reinsdorf , Tom Ricketts and Rocky Wirtz, Event co-chairs Trish Rooney and Karen Z. Gray-Krehbiel, Sponsorship levels: Presenting $100,000; Premier $50,000; Lead $25,000; Gold $15,000; Silver;$10,000, Bronze $5,000’ Tickets: TBD , FYI: This benefit originally was scheduled for March 16, 2020; all sponsorships and ticket purchases made for that fundraiser are honored for this benefit luncheon.  WINGS 21^st Annual Purple Tie Ball, Saturday, October 2, The Westin Hotel in Itasca, 6:00 PM to midnight , Traditionally held during Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Event co-chairs: Melissa Canning and Debby Jackson, Sponsorship levels: Presenting $50,000; Lead $25,000; Gold $10,000; Silver $5,000; Angel $2,500; Tickets: $250 per person. 18^th Annual Sweet Home Chicago, Sunday, December 12, Four Seasons Hotel in Chicago, 10:00am to 1:00pm, Honorary chairs: Rita and John Canning, Event co-chairs: Katherine Banich, Meghan Norton and Maria Shideler, Sponsorship levels: Title $100,000; Presenting $50,000; Lead $25,000; Gingerbread $15,000; Gum Drop $12,000; Candy Cane $6,000. (ALL info HERE!)

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Eversight Illinois' mission is to restore sight and prevent blindness through the healing power of donation, transplantation and research. In 1985, the Illinois Eye-Bank and Michigan Eye-Bank formed a partnership—one that would earn a reputation for clinical excellence made possible by some of the finest medical directors, staff and board members in the eye banking field. The success of the organization attracted affiliations with other regional eye banks like the BroMenn-Watson Gailey Eye-Bank, Lions Eye Bank of New Jersey, Cleveland Eye Bank and the Connecticut Eye Bank, forming one of the largest networks of eye banks in the U.S. In 2015, the network

Sip and Sup for Sight, Feb. 11.

became known as Eversight, all working together as a unified operation to deliver the highest quality services to surgeons and their patients and to continue to grow our impact around the world. Their fundraising efforts continue this year with their signature fundraiser, the Gift of Sight Celebration, which will be held at the Peninsula in the fall. The event will honor Justine Fedak as its Woman of Vision and Dr. Parag Majmudar as its Gift of Sight honoree. I'm proud to return as co-host with Michael Caputo. I hope you can join us for Fantasea, Mystery Masquerade! (Watch for details here!)

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Sips and Sweets for Sight, a virtual tasting on Feb. 11, 7-8 pm.

Since 1906, The Chicago Lighthouse has been a leader in comprehensive vision care and social services that improve the quality of life for patients, clients and their families. Even through these difficult times, they have not stopped delivering for those who depend on them. In 2020, I was proud to co-host their virtual FLAIR Fashion Show with Tracey DiBuono. They are planning the next one, which they hope to have in-person with a video component included (details to follow). As “stay-at-home” orders were being issued in March, their IT and management teams worked around-the-clock securing licenses and assistive technology equipment so that many of their employees with disabilities could continue working from

Chicago Lighthouse president/CEO Dr. Janet Szlyk.

home. Birth-to-Three Program Senior Director Marla Garstka personally appealed to state officials for the ability to provide remote therapies. Though physically separated, their community rallied online too, donating more than $40,000 on #GivingTuesdayNow, guaranteeing their clients would have assistance when they needed it most. To help some of the youngest members of their community, art therapy kits were packed and distributed to Preschool and Children’s Development Center students. When one of their employees, who is visually impaired, needed a safe place to live, Human Resources Senior Vice President Jeanette Bonzani helped secure a new apartment for her and her family. As some staff members who are blind remained homebound, their colleagues went to grocery stores and pharmacies for necessities. This is what they are, a “Community of Care” and this type of giving will continue into 2021 promises Lighthouse president/CEO Dr. Janet Szlyk. (To learn more, click here!)

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Gilda Radner, the Club's namesake.

Gilda's Club Chicago is a place where men, women and children whose lives have been impacted by cancer, as well as their families and friends, can feel they are part of a welcoming community of support. Even throughout Covid, they figured out ways to maintain their level of support and are now offering over 150 virtual programs monthly, such as cancer support groups, lectures, healthy lifestyle activities and more. At various times during the year, GCC hosts special events. Please watch for these event details on their virtual calendar: Gilda's Night In hosted by the Associate Board; Annual Awards Dinner;  Red DoorSociety recognition event for donors who have contributed $1,000 or more each year; Gilda’s Club Untapped. Enjoy an evening of craft beers, wines and a raffle for some great prizes; Team Gilda raises money and awareness for GCC as an official charity partner of the Bank of America Chicago Marathon and Shamrock Shuffle, RAM Racing's Cinco de Miler and other races. (For more info on programming and events, click here)  ________________________________________________________________________

After School Matters students.

After School Matters is a non-profit organization that provides life-changing after-school and summer program opportunities to 20,000 Chicago high school teens each year. They continue to design and deliver project-based, apprenticeship programs in a variety of areas, including the arts, communications and leadership, sports and STEM. They develop public-private partnerships including those with CPS, Chicago Park District, the Chicago Public Library and others to further support their youth. In 2020, they hosted their popular After School Matters Gala virtually (see video below) and are planning more fundraising opportunities for 2021. (Details to follow here)

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Since 2016, SocialWorks, founded by Grammy-award-winning musician and humanitarian Chance the Rapper, has been empowering youth through the arts, education and civic engagement. The nonprofit has created 5 initiatives for youth to help them learn and act on their passions. Programming focuses on education, mental health, homelessness and performing and literary arts. Through the initiatives, OpenMike, Warmest Winter, Kids of the Kingdom, The New Chance: Arts & Literature Fund and My State of Mind, SocialWorks hopes to inspire creativity, build dreams, and advocate for youth success in all its forms. (For more information on these initiatives, click here.) Lately, school districts around the nation have been struggling to create remote education plans for diverse learners. To help fill the need for these students, SocialWorks and Altitude Chicago have created an education pod. Students within the SocialWorks' e-pods follow the school's curriculum within a controlled CDC compliant atmosphere and receive lunch, supervision, specialized tutoring and socialization exercises throughout the school day. SocialWorks and Altitude Chicago hope to support 32 students and teachers and teacher aides this coming school year. (Classes are scheduled to start Monday, February 1, 2021.) SocialWorks and Altitude Chicago's e-pod was inspired by

A SocialWorks learning program.

a local parent, Danielle Giles, whose son struggled with remote learning. Danielle researched ways to help her son and realized that wealthier communities created their own pods and micro-schools. Frustrated with the lack of similar support in her area, Danielle made a GoFundMe page to help support diverse learners like her son, who is deaf. After connecting with Tori Niestrom, a local educator, and SocialWorks, the Diverse Learner Pod Program was born.(Qualified teachers and aides are needed to make this programming possible and are encouraged to apply here. Pod Leaders and Aides must have experience with sign language or children with disabilities, be CPR certified and a DCFS mandated reporter. Parents and students can register here. Interested groups must have 3-8 diverse learners of the same grade and school to register for a pod. All students must individually register to be considered.) To support the pod, reach out to  info@socialworkschi.com or donate here.

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The ARK Chicago, a nonprofit that annually supports over 4,000 area Jews facing adversity, announced the newest members of its leadership team as it enters its 50th year of service in 2021: Marna Goldwin as CEO, Steven Blonder as president of the Board of Directors and Michael Garlin as Chief Sustainability and Innovation Officer. The ARK continues to commit itself to serving the growing and changing needs of the Chicagoland Jewish community, focusing on providing high-quality, free care and support in a safe and dignified setting, while expanding efforts to move its programs forward in all ways. With more than 2,000 volunteers serving in a number of different departments, it has become an integral part of the Chicagoland community. For more information about The ARK, its services and its expansion, please click here. Watch the story of The Ark Chicago below....

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Chicago Scholars is entering its 25^th Anniversary year in 2021 and celebrating continued growth in creating college access and mentorship for Chicago’s first-generation and under-resourced high school students! They will share more exciting events in honor of this milestone year in the coming months. They also welcomed Jeffery Beckham Jr. as interim CEO in December – Jeff was previously the VP of Partnerships for the organization.

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Chicago Lights’ "Gala of Hope at Home" is virtually scheduled for Friday, March 5 at 7pm. This signature annual event benefits the youth development and social service programs of Chicago Lights and the community support efforts of the Replogle Center for Counseling and Well-Being. The event is free to register with any donations happily accepted. (Sign up here!)

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Devices 4 the Disabled was honored to start the year as the recipient of the Chicago Bear’s 2020 Community All-Pros initiative. This generous grant brings awareness to a critical need of medical equipment that is often not met for Chicagoans and gives D4D the ability to ensure people with disabilities have access to the medical devices they need. (Learn more here!)

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This year, The Ruth Page Center for the Arts is celebrating 50 years of dance education and artistic support! In 1971, having already established herself as an internationally acclaimed dancer, choreographer, and arts patron, Ruth Page created an arts center and school of dance where artistic excellence could thrive. The Ruth Page Center for the Arts stands today as an example of how far her legacy has grown in 50 years. The Center has become home to a vibrant Artists In-Residence program and a comprehensive theater performance space. It consistently provides performance and professional opportunities to the next generation of dance artists and world-class training with a strong focus on international partnerships. The arts organizations who work and create there, and the artists who train and perform there, together are truly representative of Ruth Page’s iconic work, "Expanding Universe," created in collaboration with artist Isamu Noguchi. Any donations will go towards supporting dance teachers, accompanists, and subsidized instruction for students in need, in addition to artistic development programs such as the Keystone Dance Academy, Artists In-Residence, Subsidized Theater and Studio Rental, International Dance Experience, and The Ruth Page Civic Ballet Training Company. The mission of The Ruth Page Center for the Arts is to “Be a platform for developing great artists and connecting them with audiences and community.” To celebrate its 50th, the Center is hoping to raise $50,000, one thousand dollars for each year. To support this remarkable nonprofit, click here!

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HCRF co-founder Eleni Bousis, Dr. Leonidas Platanias and friends at a Wings to Cure Gala.

Nearly half of all men and one-third of women in the United States will develop cancer during their lifetime. The mission of the Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation is to discover, develop and implement effective new treatments for patients with cancer by advancing groundbreaking research. The Foundation's diverse network of donors helps provide the philanthropic support to fund interdisciplinary research teams at the Robert H. Lurie Comprehensive Cancer Center of Northwestern University, empowering world-class investigators to join forces and address the most urgent questions in the fields of cancer biology and oncology in innovative ways. By investing in "out of the box" research, with an emphasis on translational cancer research, the HCRF will accelerate and heighten the impact of scientific discoveries. For the coming year, they will host their 6th "The Wings to Cure Gala" on Saturday, November 6. at the Hilton Chicago, (For more info, click here.)

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Young at Heart Pet Rescue--It all began in 2005 with a group of people who loved animals. But in particular, the older animals: Dogs who had a little grey around the muzzle, but whose hearts were young and whose love knew no bounds. Cats who lounged around, pretending to be hard of hearing, until the whir of the can-opener proved otherwise. These animals had once been loved, cherished and part of a family until one day they were no longer wanted. Passed by for younger dogs and cats, these pets are often just what an adopter is looking for – quiet, calm, housebroken, good with kids, affectionate and easily acclimated to a new home. Yet, they sit and wait for someone to love them, until many times, it is too late. In April of 2005, Young At Heart was formed to aid in the rescue and re-homing of older dogs and cats in the Chicagoland area. Since that fateful day, hundreds of senior pets have been rescued and adopted into loving homes. And, in September 2019, Young at Heart opened Chicagoland's first adoption center and sanctuary just for senior dogs and cats.,  a place where age is just a number, and where the care and comfort of those with greyer muzzles and stiffer joints than their younger counterparts come first and foremost. Executive director Dawn Kemper tells me they have a lot planned

Senior dog and cat resting at YAH, waiting for new homes.

for 2021 but are being careful. First up, this exciting PELOTON BIKE+ RAFFLE. Only 500 tickets will be sold, $50 each. Raffle ends on 1/31/21! Click here for rules and ticket purchase;  VALENTINE'S AT-HOME WINE & CHOCOLATE PAIRING KITS For Valentine's Day, Young at Heart offering an At-Home Wine & Chocolate Pairing Kits; SUMMER VIBES MUTT MOSEY fundraiser walk from May 15 - August 15th, 2021. Teams must commit to and raise $500 or more to qualify. Prizes awarded for top fundraising teams. Registration opens in March 2021; OUTDOOR YOGA IN PEACHES' MEADOW classes offered monthly May - September. Ticket is required. Limited number of participants per class, and all Covid safety measures will be followed. Registration opens April 2021. (To find more details for these fun events, click here!)

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Since 1916, the Chicago Urban League, through collaborative community, corporate and civic relationships, has helped people find jobs, secure affordable housing, enhance their educational experiences, and grow their businesses. One of the oldest and largest affiliates of the National Urban League, they promote strong, sustainable communities through advocacy, innovation, and collaborative community, corporate and civic relationships. They work to achieve equity for Black families and communities through social and economic empowerment. Throughout 2020 and now into 2021, they create programming, initiatives and events to help them achieve their mission. During the Covid crisis, they administered more than $6 mil in grants to more than 1,000 small businesses and hosted a virtual Golden Fellowship Exchange, partnering with Black owned restaurants which delivered nearly 500 meals across Chicago.  Follow them here to learn more!

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Jonny Imerman inspiring a crowd.

Imerman Angels’ was founded in 2003 by Jonny Imerman, a testicular cancer survivor. The nonprofit was created on the belief that no one should have to face cancer alone. They provide 24/7, 365, one-on-one FREE cancer support to anyone who needs it around the world. Their mission is to provide comfort and understanding for all cancer fighters, survivors, pre-vivors and caregivers through a personalized, one-on-one connection with someone who has been there. Through its unique matching process, Imerman Angels partners anyone, any age, any gender, anywhere and any cancer type seeking support with someone just like them – a “Mentor Angel”. (A Mentor Angel is a cancer survivor or caregiver who, most importantly, has faced the same type of cancer.) Throughout a typical year, they offer a variety of friend-raising opportunities. (Watch this website for their event news coming in 2021) 

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Chicago House is a social service organization that supports individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS and the broader LGBTQ community with housing, health, and employment support. Founded in 1985 during the height of the AIDS crisis, this nonprofit initially served as a housing resource, and in most cases a hospice, for those affected. Today, the organization continues to empower the people they serve by supporting advancements in medicine and being a leader in finding housing opportunities. Moving into the New Year, they will continue their many support programs and are planning for future fundraisers. (Follow their progress here!)

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Cinema/Chicago, the presenting organization of the Chicago International Film Festival (CIFF was founded in 1964 by Michael Kutza), is a year-round non-profit cultural and educational organization dedicated to fostering better communication between people of diverse cultures through the art of film and the moving image. They are not letting Covid slow

Michael Kutza, CIFF founder. (Photo by Tim Klein)

down their world class delivery of film--For instance, CineYouth, their four-day youth film festival showcasing short films from filmmakers 22 years old and under, will be virtual and include free screenings, filmmaker talks, and master classes in May 2021 and will be free on the Festival's streaming platform. Their annual free Summer Screenings program, usually held at the Chicago Cultural Center, will also be virtual and run May-September, again on the Festival's streaming platform. The 57th Chicago International Film Festival (with over 100 films on offer!) will take place October 13-24 as a hybrid event with both in-person (theater and drive-in) and virtual screenings and events. Monthly virtual film screenings and filmmaker Q&As through Cinema/Chicago's Member Film Series and Virtual Cinema will continue throughout the year. (For all the details, click here!)

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Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Foundation was founded in late 1992 by Kathleen Casey, CEO/President. The foundation is named in memory of her eight-year-old son, Barrett “Bear” Krupa, who died after a courageous five and a half year battle with Wilms Tumor, a pediatric cancer. Bear Necessities operates two programs, Bear Hugs and Bear Discoveries. While the Foundation is funding cutting-edge research to end pediatric cancer, it’s also providing for the immediate needs of the children and families battling the disease. Throughout the year, they host a number of fundraising events, including the Bear Tie Ball, A Walk for the Bear, Little Black Dress Luncheon, Young Professional Board and third party events. (Watch their website here for events coming this year and see video below!)

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The leading emerging designer runway show "Emerge! Fashion Show," established to be a catalyst and provide a platform for designers, will celebrate its 10th anniversary during New York Fashion Week on February 16 with a virtual fashion event. The show themed “A Decade of Diversity on the Runway,” will feature top emerging designers from the United States as well as Africa. The virtual event will stream on GFNTV.com and on www.Emergerunwaynyc.com at 6:00PM CST/7:00PM EST. GFNTV is a premiere online video network, which also streams live on various platforms including ROKU & Apple TV. The virtual fashion event will be hosted by Claire Sulmers of Fashion Bomb Daily, with special guest presenters Andre’ Leon Talley (former Vogue

Dionne Williams, Emerge! fashion show creator.

contributor) and Fern Mallis (creator of New York Fashion Week). The virtual event will also feature congratulatory remarks from fashion and style notables, a performance by Yanna Cello, a look back

Super model Pat Cleveland, a past Emerge honoree.

over the 10 year history of Emerge! with special clips including a design talk with London-based designer Ozwald Boateng, urban street wear designer Karl Kani and iconic model Pat Cleveland. Each season, EMERGE! presents the coveted Fashion Innovator Award. Past recipients have included Audrey Smaltz (president of the Ground Crew, presented by Harriette Cole); Constance C.R. White (editor-in-chief Essence Magazine presented  by Tracy Reese); Andre’ Leon Talley (former contributing editor of Vogue, presented by Diane Von Furstenberg); fashion icon Mikki Taylor, presented by style expert Philip Bloch); legendary model Pat Cleveland

Diane Von Furstenberg and Andre Leon Talley with Dionne Williams at a past event.

(presented by equally legendary fashion designer Stephen

Burrows) and Fern Mallis (presented by Bibu Mohapatra). This year’s Fashion Innovator Award Honoree is celebrity stylist and “image architect” Law Roach. Law will be recognized for his impact

Guest presenter Fern Mallis, a past honoree and creator of NYFW.

in shaping the global fashion industry. A host of emerging designers will also unveil their newest collections: Terri Stevens of funkinbeautiful Designs (Chicago), Scalo Designs (Johannesberg), Jesu’ Segun London , Orla Couture (Lagos, Nigeria), Haus of L.A. (Los Angeles, Chicago). The runway will be “reimagined” and feature the designs in creative vignettes. “I am so excited about the upcoming anniversary show,” says Dionne Williams, creator and producer of Emerge! Fashion Show, “When I created Emerge 10 years ago my purpose was to highlight the creativity and art that designers create for the runway. I am always in awe of the talent and gifts that designers bring to light.” (To register for free access to the virtual event, click here or visit www.GFNTV.com the day of the show.)

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Renowned Irish violinist Patricia Treacy, who performed at the Inauguration.

Beauty AND talent! Congrats to renowned Irish violinist Patricia

Being fitted for a glam gown at Dimatra's Bridal Couture with Ismini Walsh. 

Treacy, who performed during the Presidential Inauguration at the request of President Joe Biden. Patricia performed for him many times when he was VP and, for this important occasion, played a rare $4 million dollar Stradivari violin (courtesy of Bein & Co.) during the inaugural mass. (Only 244 of these rare violins are known to exist). She said in her beautiful Irish brogue, "I'm going to be sick to the gills having to give it up." It was touch and go whether or not she would be playing live or virtually due to security concerns, but in the end, she appeared live onstage at the Cathedral of St. Matthew the Apostle. She wore a stunning blue dress (the official color of Ireland!) by Dimitra's Bridal Couture (1009 N. Rush St.) and diamond earrings from Martin Katz Jewelers (Beverly Hills). Patricia lives in Ireland, County Louth, but travels frequently around the world performing. She recently filmed a documentary about Ireland, with actor Liam Neeson doing the voiceover, that she hopes will be unveiled at the White House sometime in March. See her rehearsal video below at Chicago's Old St. Patrick's Catholic Church (produced by One City Films). Kudos to this very accomplished Irish beauty!

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With Chicago Star Media editor/publisher Elaine Hyde.

I am SO excited with my new affiliation as a columnist with Chicago Star Media! This small group of community-centric newspapers is determined to make an impact in our communities and so am I. Think of them as your love letter to Chicago! No politics, only news you can use, feel-good stuff, people you should know and so much more.

With CSM's Elaine Hyde and Jay Kopp.

Many of you have already subscribed (I know who you are and am working my way through thank-you emails now) and some of you didn't know this opportunity existed! Well, it's just now being offered so you will be the first onboard. They/we offer both digital editions and hard copies as well as a free newsletter. Prices are very reasonable for all the great content you'll be receiving (like my columns--wink, wink-- including a new "Ask

Zoom meeting with some of the Chicago Star Media team.

Candid Candace" advice column coming soon!!) Other fabulous, dedicated writers include Nuria Mathog (also associate editor), Angela Gagnon, Jon Cohn and Jacqueline Davis. Jay Kopp is in charge of marketing and advertising and Elaine Hyde, the editor/publisher (if you would like to send letters to the editor, please write to her here: info@chicagostarmedia.com.  And here are the subscription options: $4.99 monthly; $78 for 2 years; $49 for one year or digital for $27 annually. And, please start planning your questions for my advice column now too--I'll answer anything-- fashion, romance, what to do, where to go, etc., WHATEVER! Send all questions here, CandidCandace@ChicagoStarMedia.com  and maybe yours will be selected. Make sure to include your name and title too!  All details to subscribe are here AND don't forget to sign up for the free newsletter too: https://bit.ly/35QoN28 (I would be so grateful!)

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I love seeing all of the creativity and fun surrounding the

Bernie in Charles Ifergan's chair.

meme-generator that lets you place Bernie Sanders anywhere in the world. I've seen images of him on The Dating Game, in Stephen King's movie "The Shining," in bed with one of the Golden Girls, with his arms wrapped around Janet Jackson, sitting in stylist Charles Ifergan's chair getting a haircut, inside the Oscar Meyer Weiner Mobile, chatting with Svengoolie and so many others. I even saw him

Tobey Time Crochet Bernie doll.

in front of my childhood home in Dupo, Ill! LOL! Nick Sawhney, the creator of the meme-generator says over 9 million people used the online tool and, that due to costs, had to be scrapped. And now, Tobey Time Crochet has created the most believable tiny knitted version of him

Bernie with a Golden Girl.

seated wearing his now-iconic mittens that is up for auction. The current bid is $14,900! The meticulously crafted doll includes hair, glasses, the blue surgical mask and the mittens and measures approximately 9". A reporter asked Bernie about his mittens and he replied, "Fashion? Every American needs their $2000 check!" Bernie is also using his image to

Double Bernie in The Shining.

raise money for charity, turning the events from "fun to good." He told CNN, "We're going to be selling sweaters, T-shirts and more around the country with all of the money raised, I expect a couple of million dollars, going to programs like Meals on Wheels that feed low-income senior citizens." Tobey Time Crochet has made these Bernie patterns available but notes they're not for beginners. (And, if interested in bidding on the Bernie doll auction, click here!)

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Wisconsin's Door County will welcome a brand new hotel in the village of Sister Bay in late May. The Dorr Hotel will feature 47 contemporary rooms and suites, a two-story beamed lobby with fireplace, a welcoming lobby bar, a large outdoor courtyard with fire pit and lawn games and a guest experience team who will design Door County touring itineraries. The Dorr will be the area's first newly built hotel in almost 20 years! Inspired by the area's Scandinavian heritage, the four-story cobalt blue building will embody "coziness and contentment" according to owner Christopher Schmeltz. Rooms range from $175 to $440 per night. For further info, call 844.944.0354 or click here.

The Dorr Hotel coming in May to Door County.

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Ms. Anita Harris turns 102! (Photo by her goddaughter Jonquil Byers.)

Happy birthday, with love, to Miss Anita Harris who turned 102 on January 25! She's as spry as can be with a beautiful full head of blond hair that she tends to on a regular basis at her favorite, local beauty salon. She loves fashion, watching "Jeopardy" and "Family Feud" and listening to smooth jazz while enjoying a mimosa now and then. She lives by herself in the iconic

Ms Anita Harris and her own beautiful blond hair!

complex known as Hilliard Homes and enjoys cooking healthy meals, including gourmet food. She's an upbeat, positive person who has learned to adjust to difficulties imposed by Covid--including having to attend her Salem Lutheran Church services via Zoom. She was born in 1919 at the old St. Luke's Hospital and lived for 30 years in the Jackson Park neighborhood. She is married and the mother of one daughter (husband and daughter both now deceased). Ms. Anita was a housewife for many years before going to work for the Department of Welfare and finally, the Board of Education where she spent 17 years. She said, "Some of my family were enslaved. I can't believe we're going through this kind of turmoil again. This is all so sad." She said she was "so happy to have lived long enough to see a Black president and now a Black woman as VP." She donates to charities, including those dedicated to cancer survivors, the homeless and pets. God Bless you and keep you Miss Anita! Love your inspiring story!

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Nick Pullia with his late, much loved Moluccan cockatoo Elliott.

Many of you know and love dear Nick Pullia, he of the always upbeat demeanor and scintillating wit, who also happens to be the director of communications for the venerable Ravinia Festival. Chuck and I have been privileged to have spent time with him throughout the years and the one thing that always stood out was his

One of the many tributes Nick has received in honor of Elliott.

larger-than-life love for all animals. He owned many himself, including big, happy dogs as well as birds. (Between you and me, I think his heart stretched out a little bigger when he was with his avian friends). Recently, he suffered horrible heartbreak when he unexpectedly lost one of his best friends, a Moluccan cockatoo named Elliott. "She" had been his constant companion

The late, great Baby Elliott Pullia.

since she was 4 months old and they recently had celebrated 30 wonderful, fun-filled years together. Shortly after this milestone celebration, Elliott passed away unexpectedly when she suffered massive trauma caused by a prolapse while trying to pass an egg. The heartbreak is unimaginable and our prayers and love go out to Nick and the rest of his furry/feathery family. Nick had made arrangements for Elliott's care after HE had passed with A Refuge for Saving the Wildlife, a parrot rescue that helps homeless birds find new families.(Their motto is "don't buy, don't breed, please adopt a bird in need.")  Being the wonderful pet parent that he is, he had, of course, thought of everything. Sadly, life had other plans. RIP dear Baby Ell and, if you would like to support this wonderful bird wildlife refuge (and Nick), please donate here. 

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Special thanks to MB Luxury Group's Maggie Baczkowski and Curt Rose, the wonderful co-hosts of a new show

With co-hosts Maggie Baczkowski and Curt Rose.

called "Switching Gears." And, even though they're both luxury real estate specialists, this show is about all the things that make Chicago fun! I was proud to be the first interview on their debut show that also included Shaun Rajah, Joseph Szymczak and DC Crenshaw. (Watch segment here, my part runs from 21:25 to 34:06, but it's ALL good!)

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Interviewing Larry King with Sugar Rautbord enroute to a Cubs game.

RIP dear Larry King. I was so sorry to hear of his recent passing. I've always admired this talk show legend and was beyond thrilled to be offered a one-on-one interview with him in August of 2011 when

Pals Sugar Rautbord and Larry King.

he traveled to Wrigley Field to throw out the first pitch at the Cubs/Cardinals game. Larry was in town being feted by author/socialite, Sugar Rautbord. She was a great pal of his and hosted a party at her house following the game for his book "Truth Be Told." (She also arranged this opportunity that I will never forget.) Larry was

Larry King after throwing out first pitch at a Cubs/Cardinals game in 2011.

witty, charming and funny and the interview lasted the entire route from the Park Hyatt to the ballpark! He talked nonstop and was the perfect interview. I was spellbound hearing his amusing stories with world leaders like Vladimir Putin who called him at the barber shop (due to his mistrust of cell phones) or the time Saddam Hussein called him at a restaurant (he told the waiter to "put him on hold.") or the time former President Clinton called during his impeachment proceedings and asked "who's winning?" With his far reaching knowledge and humor, it's no surprise that he became a much loved celebrity himself. Read the full story here!  (Photos by Mila Samokhina)

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That's it for now, my love letter to some of Chicago's beloved nonprofits. As I mentioned in my opening, if I missed your organization, please send me your event updates for 2021 and I'll be happy to include it in the next edition. As we move into the New Year, let's hope it doesn't even remotely resemble the year past. I'm looking forward to celebrating and hugging as many people as possible and am excited to see what new opportunities this year brings for all of us. As Winston Churchill said, "If you're going through hell, keep going." And that's exactly what we're all going to do....

Love, as always,

Candace

P.S. We need to all take this toddler's advice....

 

NEW YEAR'S EVE RESOLUTIONS, 2020 AND THE FUTURE: CHICAGO WEIGHS IN

Plus: What nonprofit fundraisers are coming back in 2021?; YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's GREAT news; Izzy "Shops with a Cop" for the kids; Silver linings for PAWS Chicago, One Tail at a Time and Young at Heart Pet Rescue; CHI-lebrities open their hearts in Chicago Star Media; Remembering Hef's HOT New Year's Eve parties; Eversight Illinois' Mystery Masquerade; Playboy's new centerfold policy; Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation's Wings to Cure; Chicago Light's Gala of Hope; Happy engagement announcements; Six Flags Holiday Drive-Thru; In the news with John and Steve; Thoughts on 2020 and what the New Year will bring; A touching video and SO MUCH MORE!

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Londonhouse Rooftop igloos

New Year's Eve looked a little different this year. Besides Covid changing the landscape of the entire world, it also kept us from celebrating the end of one of the worst years in recent memory. Restaurants missed out on much needed revenue, friends missed traditional celebrations with family and Times Square was eerily empty. People could only peek out their windows like Jimmy Stewart in "Rear Window" trying to get a feel for what was happening outside. We are all still on lockdown, mentally and physically. Chuck and I grabbed longtime friend Michael Kutza

NYE at cozy Avli on Wells.

determined to still experience NYE, this year in a tent with heaters. Even though people were having fun we all knew this was just a (hopefully temporary) substitute for the real thing. All of this lack of freedom made me think about the wild and woolly days of NYEs past. We're so lucky

Yurts at Swift & Sons designed by Kehoe.

to have experienced the heyday of Playboy with Hefner at his Mansion in LA. I always felt his parties rivaled Jay Gatsby's in exquisite excess and excitement. The invitations, always with beautiful pinup artwork created by Olivia De Berardinis, arrived in the mail a few weeks before the big event (I've saved them all).

LA Playboy Mansion lit up for NYE 2009.

We would RSVP immediately and then the anticipation began. You never knew what to expect at any of his

With Hef at a past NYE in LA.

parties as the guest lists were always changing to accommodate whoever was in town along with some of his celebrity friends. One year, the Village People performed, another year Three Six Mafia hit the stage that was inside a ginormous tent on the grounds of Hef's Holmby Hills estate. Another year, one of Hef's three girlfriends, Bridget Marquardt,  popped out of a giant cake

Hef surrounded by admirers at a past NYE.

and did a slow strip tease as she gazed into his eyes (the crowd went wild). Hef's party guests have included John Elway, Penelope Cruz, James Caan, Nicholas Cage, astronaut Buzz Aldrin, Robert Culp, Tiffany Trump, Donald Trump,  Julie Newmar, Bill Cosby (ick), Jane Russell, Quentin Tarantino, Pamela

Chuck enjoying the views at one of Hef's NYE parties.

Anderson, Jack Nicholson, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Madonna, Eddie Murphy, Warren Beatty, Justin Timberlake, Jimmy Connors, Paris and Nicky Hilton, Eddie Murphy and so many more. It was always a great

adventure wondering who you would see that night. I was lucky that Hef liked Chuck too and always included him. During the parties, guests enjoyed gourmet buffets,

Celebrating with fellow Playmates Marcy Hanson, Hope Olson and Patti McGuire Connors.

unlimited champagne and cocktails, swimming in the pool or lounging in the grotto. Guests were encouraged to wear lingerie which definitely added to the excitement. Some girls' interpretations of the "suggested attire" left little to the imagination. Oh, those were truly the days! I'm happy to see Playboy doing so well online now too. Even though the magazines have physically disappeared, the brand's online presence is strong and growing. I'm so happy to still have them as a family too. Here's to another 68 years and to a bigger, brighter 2021 for us all! 

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I quizzed some of my favorite bold-faced names to see how they were handling the pandemic, what their NYE resolutions were, their best moments of 2020, hopes for the future and any advice that might give us some inspiration. I discovered that we all have more in common than we know. I hope you enjoy these enlightening, and in some cases, surprising, comments from some of my favorite Chicago notables.   

One of my favorite media peeps, Sylvia Perez (Fox-32) provided these thoughtful answers. Her

Sylvia Perez: "We are Puerto Rican and I love these shirts. We eat Pasteles and drink coquito (Puerto Rican egg nog) it’s a holiday tradition!"

favorite moment, "When they finally took Texas off the travel ban list and I was able to see my 86 year-old mother who I had not seen since last year because of the pandemic. It warmed my heart. I needed my mommy. It doesn't matter how old you are." Her NYE resolution? "To live in the moment!" Her advice? "Everyone is going through something, respect and try not to judge."

Kathy O'Malley Piccone

Kathy O'Malley Piccone, the hostess with the mostest at Gibson's Steakhouse, said her favorite moments during the pandemic were "when people started to reach out to each other, sending texts, jokes, puzzles, flowers, delicious foods from local restaurants and the wonderful 'calm app.'' She said, "Most of all, just sending love and positive vibes to each others. Touching moments that brought me to tears every evening at 8 pm throughout the city [when people serenaded the healthcare workers]." Her NYE resolution is to "spread more kindness, more love and generosity, more understanding of one another, more courage and peace and be more in the moment."

 

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Amanda Puck, Director Strategic Brand Development Mariano's, has worked in the food industry for a long time. She shared,

Amanda Puck w/ Mariano's community partner Jermaine Anderson, Corey Carr, 6th Ward Alderman Roderick Sawyer, Ron Baker Jr. and Otis Wilson.

"Through the pandemic, it was great to see organizations and individuals step up and help the community more than ever! Both the Greater Chicago Food Depository and Northern Illinois Food Bank have worked so hard feeding the community, as well as all the local food pantries across Chicagoland." During the isolation she learned "how to make a mean arancini from Chef Tony Priolo, delicious Mac & Cheese from Chef Brian Jupiter and taste more wines with Belinda Chang all via our Mariano's meet-ups and zoom classes." Her NYE resolution? "To read more! She has started with Julia Child's "My Life in France." Amanda said, "I admire her, she started and blossomed in her career later in life. She's an epic legend in our industry." She added a quote from one of her favorite authors Morgan Harper Nichols, 'Even if the wait carries on another year, I will not get where I am going without first learning to be here.'"

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Melody Spann Cooper with former First Lady Michelle Obama.

Melody Spann Cooper, Chair and CEO Midway Broadcasting Corp., said her favorite moment of 2020 was "when Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were declared the President and VP-Elect of the United States. I didn't realize how sleep deprived I had been over the past four years." Her NYE resolution is to "remain healthy and helpful. I'm making a commitment to 365 days of giving. Every day I plan to intentionally give something that will help someone." Her hope for the future? "I hope for healing and restoration. Restoring health to those who have been impacted by the pandemic. Restoring compassion in all of humanity and restoring Chicago to the great city we love. It's not perfect, but in its imperfection, it's still home and a place that has allowed me to dream past my zip code."

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Paul Iacono, president Chicago Dowel Company, and much loved man-about-town, said his

Paul Iacono with niece Jennifer and nephew Tommy.

favorite moment of 2020 was being able to squeeze in a last minute trip to Hawaii during Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day. His hopes for next year are a "quick return to normalcy, especially for my friends in the hospitality industry who truly have had a rough go of it." His words of advice, "This too shall pass."

Always stylish, Mark Olley.

Another handsome friend, Mark Olley (Co-op Lending Manager, Chicago Financial Services), said, "No matter what hand we've been dealt, we adapt, we flourish, it's who we are, it's what we do, we're CHICAGO STRONG!" Mark discovered new skills during the pandemic, as many of us did. He enjoyed learning to cook, plant and tend to a vegetable garden and credits his husband and dog Grayson for keeping him sane. Mark says, "I always lead with hope, optimism and love." His dream for 2021 is good health and an end to Covid-19. "A positive mind and outlook, no matter how trying the circumstances, helps to get us through a lot."

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Dusty Stemer with friends Peggy Martay, 

May Kay Touhy-Silverman

and Toni Canada.

Yolanda "Dusty" Stemer, philanthropist, member of Service Club of Chicago, Costume Council and others, said that two of her three sons had mild cases of Covid and both recovered rapidly."Things like this makes you realize and give credit to our healthcare workers." Her NYE resolution is to "not turn that Peloton into a clothes rack!" Her hopes for 2021, "The same as everyone, to get a vaccine to all of our loved ones and free Botox for all!" Dusty is married to Dr. Alex Stemer, who is deeply involved in treatment, research and prevention of Covid. "There is light at the end of the tunnel. Recent advances will help make 2021 much better than 2020...Tomorrow is promised to no one, and the one thing Covid steals from us is time with those we love," she said.

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Justine Fedak, Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker and soon-to-be Woman of Vision

Justine Fedak, "a girl who never gives up!"

for this year's Eversight Illinois Gift of Sight Celebration told me her title should be "a girl who never gives up." She's a good friend and I can tell you I have never met anyone so tenacious and driven (in a very good way). She said 2020 was a time of total renewal for her. She regained mobility "by some miracle" [she suffered from MS for years and years] and "connected deeply" with her dearest friends. Her NYE resolution is to "cry when things make me happy or sad and to feel and live my life to the fullest, no pretending anything." Her motto? "Be in love with your life every single minute. My grandma passed away this December at age 98 and she was the strongest, toughest, most loving person who never complained about anything she had to live through. To be alive is to be in love...with your life," she said.

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Sherrill Bodine with Paula Borg and Sherry Lea Holson.

Sherrill Bodine, author, president of the Service Club of Chicago and philanthropist, said her favorite moment of the last year was "working with the dedicated women of the Service Club who worked tirelessly through these challenging times to raise money for our Philanthropic Fund which will be given out in 2021 to worthy charities all over Chicago." Sherrill recently lost her husband and said her resolution is "to seek the light and find my way on this new journey without John." She always greets each day with hope and vows to "never surrender."

 

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Sean Lewis, WGN News Anchor, remembers his favorite moment of 2020 very well. He

Newlyweds Sean Lewis and Trover Gray Wilson.

married the love of his life, Trover Gray Wilson, in a ceremony at City Hall. "The pandemic didn't allow us a large in-person celebration but I'm hoping 2021 will!" He said his resolution is "to realize that resolutions aren't a good idea. Usually it becomes the first disappointment of any new year for me." He hopes that when the pandemic ends, that people will treat each other better. His words of advice? "Eat well, appreciate the small things and learn one new thing a day."

Nan Giordano (3rd from L) with Joshua Blake Carter, Beth Tarrant, her son Keenan Casey, Sophie Darley and Cesar Salinas.

An icon in the dance world, Nan Giordano, artistic director Giordano Dance Chicago, is looking forward to "launching Illuminate the Possibilities, an initiative which represents global connection, unity, positivity and possibility, all through dance." She said, "Amidst our dim world light I have chosen to focus on the many silver linings that have immersed. I hope we learn and grow and take the many challenging circumstances and make something positive out of them. Mankind and peace, front and center!"  Her motto? "Today is the day! Adversity creates strength and change brings opportunity."

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Dear friend Michael Caputo, brand and creative strategist, enjoyed long walks around

Michael Caputo (R) with friend Greg Hyder at RL.

the lakefront in the warmer months. He said, "It was lots of good thinking time. The views of our beautiful city were a hopeful reminder that things will soon return to normal." His NYE resolution is to "be adept with change and related growth." He said, "This pandemic has challenged us to rethink the 'why' of our respective lives/careers." His advice: "Every storm runs out of rain. We've all had to make do and redirect energies this past year, that can be stressful. Don't let a setback define the day. Or your life."

Dionne Williams

Dionne Williams, president D. Williams PR Group, said, even though 2020 was a "rough year", she was able to spend more quality time with her family and a small group of friends, by staying in touch via phone or Zoom. She said, "2020 made me slow down, so for 2021 I will continue to not rush myself and live in the present and enjoy my surroundings. I want to focus more on fitness and travel when it's safe to do so." She added, "During these rough times, I have learned to be more patient. I also will take this time to work on things that I was too busy for previously, in life and business."

 

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, executive producer ZZAZZ Productions, said, "Having family

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and her Joey.

close and my young granddaughters in my home has given me a foundation of great unity as a family. Work paused. My husband Joey prepared family dinners that brought us all to the table, dinners that we never dreamed would happen in our previously busy lives." She looks forward to adding a new component to her business, virtual fashion shows and events. Her NYE resolution? "Don't expect things to return to normal...make a choice to accept and then create a new normal and keep my faith in God." She hopes that "new avenues become open to us and that prayers will be answered for everyone. Open your heart to what has been given and find gratitude in every day."

Michelle Durpetti with her fab fam--dad Tony Durpetti, mom Marion and hubby Collin Pierson.

Michelle Durpetti, managing partner Turnkey Hospitality Group, chief planner Michelle Durpetti Events, said her favorite moment of 2020 was seeing her Gene & Georgetti management team come together, be more creative, more adaptive and supportive of each other. "We have even laughed while sometimes we felt like

Michelle Durpetti and her team from Gene & Georgetti restaurant.

crying and I think that is because we have each other. Yanni, Sal, Cristiano, Luis, Jessica, Nicole, Jeremy and Angelo are all such incredible human beings. My favorite moment hands down has been seeing them flourish and fight all the challenges." As far as resolutions, "I don't believe in resolutions to be honest. I live my life out loud, with empathy and compassion always and when I get something wrong, I own it. And that is year round." Her advice going forward: "I think I now live with the knowledge that life truly can change so fast. It has really affirmed for me that I need to take a moment every day to be grateful for all that I have and for making it this far." Her words of advice? "Let's stop tearing at one another and, instead, extend helpful hands and grateful hearts towards each other."

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RMHC-CNI's Holly Buckendahl.

Holly Buckendahl, CEO Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland & NW Indiana, said a silver lining, that she didn't expect, was the ability to stay connected virtually with family and friends. Her hope for the coming year? "While open through the pandemic (with many restrictions), I look forward to RMHC-CNI reinstating the full breadth of services critically ill children and their families need on their journey to heal together." Her advice during these tough times comes from professor, social worker and author Brene Brown who said, "In order to empathize with someone's experience, you must be willing to believe them as they see it and not how you imagine their experience to be."

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My PR gal pal Kathleen Sarpy, founder/CEO Agency H5, said her favorite moment of 2020,

Kathleen Sarpy and her family.

despite a tough year filled with personal losses, was being able to be "immersed" with all of her kids. She and her husband Chris discovered that "love and connectedness is truly the most important thing." She said, "I really need to find a hobby. I'm a wife, a mom to 6 awesome kids, run a company and I don't really have something that I do just for me. I might finally give meditation a try or yoga, to have a space to be mindful in body and spirit."

Pandemic baking with Jennifer Sutton Brieva and Paul Iacono.

Jennifer Sutton Brieva, felt that Christmas was one of her favorite moments of 2020. She said "it was a much needed shift in energy for everyone. We need that all year long." Her hopes for 2021? "To learn from 2020 and never take people or experiences for granted again and to get back into pre-Covid shape!" Her words of advice? "People need to be grateful and embrace the simple pleasures of life that have become so very vital." I am so grateful for a FaceTime call with my parents, happy hour Zoom with dear friends, a classic movie with my cat Zoe or even a walk in Lincoln Park or a dance party in the kitchen with my husband Joaquin--those every day opportunities for joy often overlooked become special moments of connection, never to be taken for granted again."  

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WBBM Newsradio anchor/reporter Lisa Fielding, who has one of the most distinctive voices 

Lisa Fielding, the Voice of WBBM.

in the business, said her favorite moment of 2020 was a mother/daughter trip to Mexico in February. "I got my travel fix, after this, by hitting the road to Michigan a couple of times to see the sunset from the other side. I'm a big "sunset" person and try to find them wherever I go," she added. Her hope for the coming year? "I hope for better days for the world, where jobs and prosperity return, where we can hug each other, sing and dance with each other while enjoying live music in our favorite venues or in that dark bar with the awesome jukebox, where we can travel the world again, enjoy a cold one and the crack of the bat at a baseball game, enjoy family gatherings, weddings, celebrations, our favorite restaurants, happy hour with friends and escape through live theater."

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Dori Wilson

Another dear friend in media is Dori Wilson, publicist/founder Dori Wilson Public Relations. Her favorite moment of 2020 was "watching a racially diverse movement develop and grow in recognition of long-standing racial inequality and injustice in this country, watching individuals and corporations commit to do better and recognition of "we're all in this together." Her NY resolution? "To actually use my Peloton!" Her hope for 2021? "I am so hopeful for a vaccination and a vacation!".....Words of wisdom? "Laughter is the best medicine and forgiveness runs a close second!"

 

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Caylei Vogelzang and family.

The editor-in-chief of Cancer Wellness magazine, Caylei Vogelzang, said the best moment of 2020 was being able to spend more time with her family on the golf course. Her NYE resolutions include learning to do the splits 3 ways and a backward walkover; improve on physical fitness assessments; visit a yoga retreat; grow and expand her magazine and "become more of an essential source for those touched by cancer"; plan a family holiday to a national park; wear more pieces from local designers and sustainable fashion and practice gratitude daily and more meditation. The words she lives by is "exercise, exercise, exercise!"

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Jean de St Aubin, the executive director of the Gene Siskel Film Center, says her favorite

Jean de St. Aubin and her daughter holiday baking.

moment of 2020 was presenting the Black Harvest Film Festival. She said, "The timing could not have been better. It was so great to have a month of celebrating Black stories, the joy felt virtually was a much needed balm to a turbulent year." Her hopes for 2021? "That everyone gets vaccinated ASAP, and that we all be together again. I think I will turn into a hugging machine as soon as it is safe." Her advice? "Count your blessings and share your gifts."

Jean Antoniou and family at Chicago Botanic Garden.

Jean Antoniou, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers, said her favorite part of 2020 was "knowing it is almost over." Her advice moving forward? "To cherish family and friends because they will always be your biggest supporters. Glass is half full is always a good way to look at each day."

Michelle Mekky, president and founder of

Michelle Mekky

Mekky Media Relations, found silver linings in a tough year. She said spending more time with her kids and husband made her so grateful for "the little moments." She also found joy in the hiring of four new people for her 5 year-old business. In 2021, she plans on prioritizing her own health and to invest in herself in ways she never has. Her motto? "Every day is a new day. Every morning we wake up with a new chance. I truly believe the energy you give out is what comes back to you. Despite all of the negativity around us, never lose hope. We will get through this!"

Pam Capitanini (center) with friends Simona Garcia and Cristina Montgomery.

Pamella Capitanini, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago, loved watching people's inventiveness during 2020 as many learned new ways to pivot. She said, "From drive-by birthday celebrations, mask creativity and eating in igloos, it was amazing and inspiring to see." Her NYE resolution: "To keep smiling and do my best! And remember the front line workers who have given all and those who have left us." She added, "I believe many of us have realized that nails, hair and party dresses don't make a difference, but reaching out to one another does!"

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And last but certainly not least, everyone's favorite elf, The Real Elf Tommy Holl, Head of Media for The

Tommy Holl, aka "The Real Elf."

North Pole, had much to be thankful for in 2020. "This holiday season is one for the history books that I hope we never have to repeat, but we were able to create a spark of joy for young and old." His favorite moments included: "Elfing" at 900 North Michigan Shops; Sending Elf Gram video messages with proceeds benefiting Imerman Angels (Tommy is a cancer survivor); Being hired to pop into 5 Zoom calls from around the world; Appearing on "Around Town with Ana Belaval", "Happy Hour with the Hoovers", WGN radio with Paul Lisnek, Tom Skilling's Christmas Eve and so much more. His NYE resolution is to: "Pause, reset, reorganize, reflect, be prepared, be ready, be thankful and be kind." His advice? "You can't grow from NO. It's okay to say no when it doesn't feel right, but saying no all the time will lead you nowhere. Try not to take things too seriously, none of us get out of here alive. And appreciate what you have."

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Eversight Illinois "Gift of Sight Celebration" Save-the-Date with mask included. 

I'm so excited to see some events coming BACK!! Mark your calendars for Eversight Illinois' "Gift of Sight Celebration", set for Thursday, October 21 at the Peninsula. Justine Fedak will be honored as the Woman of Vision and Dr. Parag Majmudar will be the Gift of Sight honoree. This year's masquerade theme is "Fantasea" and I'm honored to return as co-chair with Michael Caputo! (For more details, click here!)

On Saturday, November 6, the Hippocratic Cancer Research

Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation Save-the-Date with mask included.

Foundation, will host its 6th annual "Wings to Cure." This gala will be held at the Hilton Chicago and funds raised will help support cutting edge cancer research at the Lurie Cancer Center. For more details, click here!  

Chicago Lights "Gala of Hope at Home" is still set for Friday, March 5 at 7 pm CST. This signature event will benefit the youth development and social service programs of Chicago Lights and the community support efforts of the Replogle Center for Counseling and Well-Being. (More details here!)

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Here's more happy news on the nonprofit front! YWCA Metropolitan Chicago received a $9

Philanthropist MacKenzie Scott, ex-wife of Amazon's Jeff Bezos.

million unrestricted contribution from billionaire venture philanthropist MacKenzie Scott. This major gift will help the nonprofit and its mission to empower women and families and advance racial justice. This major gift is part of more than $4 billion in philanthropic contributions made by Ms. Scott over the past four months. Board president Joyce Winnecke (just love her!) called this gift an "affirmation of YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's strategy."

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Israel "Izzy" Idonije with CPD officers from his "Shop with a Cop" initiative.

Former Chicago Bear Israel "Izzy" Idonije has lifted charitable giving to an art form. For the 6th year in a row, Izzy and his IF Charities team hosted "Shop With a Cop", a great initiative that builds trust between CPD officers and the communities they serve. On Thursday, December 17, more than 60 police officers shopped for kids in need, who had submitted a wish list "for Santa" in advance. The officers picked up items that were donated by Target with special $50 gift certificates included for family dinners donated by Jewel. (To support Izzy in his many charitable endeavors around town, click here!)

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CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves.

Special thanks to CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves and to  

John Garcia, ABC-7.

ABC-7's John Garcia for having me on their segments recently! I loved chatting about what to do for NYE with John (watch segment here) and to Steven about how our nonprofits are pivoting their fundraisers. (Watch this segment here!)

One of my favorite silver linings to this pandemic mess is the fact that our animal shelters are at their lowest point with un-adopted rescues! As a matter of fact, PAWS Chicago has reported a near record number of adoptions in 2020--4,100! Through their Holiday-Adopt-a-Thon and usual grassroots efforts, they have managed to find forever homes for 4100 DOGS AND CATS! Can I get a Woot! Woot!? PAWS Chicago also provides extensive resources to help pets make a seamless transition into their news home and also provides a lifetime safety net for every animal, ensuring that if something happens to the adopter, their PAWS pet will always be cared for. I'm hearing similar good news from One Tail at a Time and also Young at Heart Senior Pet Rescue--all my favorites and much recommended animal shelters. Please check them out if you're looking for a pet!

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I'm so loving my new home at Chicago Star Media! This group of hyper-local papers delivers, monthly, positive news you can use and I hope you're a subscriber! (Please click here for details or just leave your name and address here, info@chicagostarmedia, to receive the free online newsletter.) My latest column, "Chicago's CHI-lebrities Reflect on 2020, Share Hopes for the Coming Year" has been a hit, garnering both the front page and centerfold of the recent publication! (Read it here and get advice and discover the hopes and dreams of Chef Art Smith, rocker Jim Peterik, Bill Kurtis and Donna La Pietra, comedian Tom Dreesen, Kerry Wood and his Sarah, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Leslie Hindman, Israel "Izzy" Idonije, The Joffrey  Ballet's Ashley Wheater, entertainer Chilli Pepper, restaurateur RJ Melman, Alpana Singh, Michael Kutza, Aldmerman Brian Hopkins and Dr. Ian Smith. I was so moved by their honest, thoughtful answers....there is uplifting advice, inspiration for the future and their thoughts on 2020! Read it all here!

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Jatnna Toribio and Izzy Idonije are engaged!

There's a lotta love in the air right now! So many exciting betrothals to announce! First off, love and

Marcus Riley is engaged to Jude Fitzgerald!

congrats to Jatnna Toribio and her Israel Idonije, who were recently engaged. Also, congratulations to Marcus Riley and his Jude Fitzgerald who got engaged on New Year's Day and,

Val Warner is engaged to Jobba Jordan.

last but not least, to Windy City Live's Val Warner who just became engaged to Jobba Jordan. I'm thrilled for each and every one of these beautiful people who managed to not only survive during

Val and Jobba sittin' in a tree.....

this nasty year, but to thrive and find love. It's definitely easier to face any storm when you're supported by your best friend. Here's wishing them all a lifetime of health and happiness and, as Kup always said, "Long may they love!"

 

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We recently experienced Six Flags' Holiday in the Park Drive-Thru in Gurnee. Over 3 million lights illuminate the park as cars drive through at 3 mph. We ordered hot chocolate, a funnel cake and I bought an ornament (of course). We listened to piped in holiday music and it was sort of eerie, to be honest, and had the feel of driving through a deserted theme park in the Truman Show. However, I guess if we'd lived closer, the experience would've been a little easier and better. But, frankly, driving through the park with the Notre Dame game blasting on the radio might've had something to do with my lack of enthusiasm (although Chuck was certainly entitled to cheer on his favorite team!) This is only my POV, so please go and find out for yourselves (and let me know what you think!) The experience has been extended through Jan. 10, details here!

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Playboy's Winter 2021 Playmate Izabela Guedes.

Playboy has changed the format of its iconic centerfold. No longer will the featured Playmate be spotlighted for just a month, now she will have a whole season all to herself! There will be only 4 Playmates a year....makes me wish for a do-over! Read deets here on how Playboy is growing, and meet the Winter 2021 Playmate, Izabela Guedes.

 

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As I close out my first blog of 2021, I must say, I am glad to leave 2020 (far) behind. I've never had a worse year and I know many of my friends feel the same. There's was no  "dashing through the snow on a one horse open sleigh, o'er the fields we go, laughing all the way"...... Not this year when everything in the world changed in the blink of a Covid eye. I couldn't even get in my usual cheery mood for Christmas, at least not in the way I used to. One minute, we're planning family gatherings, figuring out seating, who will sit at the kids' table and the next thing you know, we're all Zooming in to "celebrate" on computer screens. I found myself decorating for Christmas almost manically, trying to create much needed joy that is at a premium now. I know store

This is definitely NOT my work, beautiful gingerbread house by Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva (kit from Vanille Chicago).

shelves were shopped clean of all holiday decor long before the usual time. On social media, my friends busily shared photos of their trees, holiday cookies, DIY Christmas ideas and so much more. Hell, we even attempted building a gingerbread house for the first time but it

I'm thinking our tree will be up until Easter or beyond. (Sort of kidding?)

looked like a tornado hit it before I could even ice the roof. This year, we lost our dog, family members, I lost a job, Chuck lost his three dearest friends and had a TIA (mini-stroke). I think I was entitled to decorate as much as I wanted to try to fill this void and you can bet these decorations are gonna be here for a while. Nothing makes me happier than twinkling Christmas tree lights. It reminds me of all the GOOD years in the past when all of our family was gathered together, giving gifts and

Marshall Field's famous Chicken Pot Pie.

thanks for our good health and the fact that we were still here. Pre-Covid, you could still find Santa in all the department stores, which were decorated to the nines. I'm happy though to see that retail, despite all its setbacks, still

Marshall Field's Walnut Room at Christmas 1950.

tried to be festive. Macy's, although certainly not close to the old Marshall Field's in holiday decor, still had cheerful windows and the Great Tree in the Walnut Room. And, although families couldn't carry on life-long traditions of dining there during the season, they could still order carry-out--the famous Mrs. Hering's Chicken Pot Pie (recipe here), lobster bisque, Frango Mint

Ann Gerber's book, "Sweet Tooth," a collection of recipes by Chicago notables.

Chocolate Ice Cream Pie and more. For Chuck and me, we still tried to carry on family traditions. We baked my mom's ham (Cooks only) and I fixed Mama Mary Johnson's famous sweet potato pie (whose recipe was featured in Ann Gerber's 1985 book, "Chicago's Sweet Tooth."). I also cooked the requisite black-eyed peas for good luck on New Year's Day (I pray it works). We toasted to the loved ones we lost and prayed for a better future, one that will bring back the human element and social interaction that is necessary to the survival of a species. We can't drift apart. We need "parties for hosting, marshmallows for toasting and caroling out in the snow," now more than ever. Here's hoping this year is off to a great start for you!

Love always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Life's short, make the most of it. Thank you Michiel for this poignant reminder.

 

CHICAGO'S LITERARY AWARDS, HOLIDAY HOT SPOTS, COOL DECORATING TIPS, VIRTUAL TRIUMPHS AND MORE!

Plus: Fun, fashion and FUR-lanthropy for Infant Welfare Society; Cooking with Sarah and Kerry for Pitch In; WINGS' virtual "Sweet Home Chicago" party; Jack Frost's Winter Walk & Christmas Tree Farm; Frosty's Holiday Pop-Up Hotel (the first and only); Albany Park unites with lights;  CircuitMOM's Holiday Pop-Up; The Drake Hotel's homage to Princess Diana; Top designers share tips/tricks for holiday decorating; Jim Peterik and the Ides of March (FREE) Christmas show; Kehoe Designs makes Christmas Merry & Bright for the needy; Shaun and Joseph's towering holiday gift giving idea; Skyline's Thomas O'Gorman; National Jingle Bell Day from Chicago Star Media (JOIN US!); Porchlight Music Theatre's "Burning Bluebeard"; Playboy remembers its Playmates at Christmas; Ruth Page Center's virtual Nutcracker; Chicago Light's "Gala of Hope at Home"; GREAT toy drive list; Nadia Lee Cohen's "WOMEN"; Special thanks to Sylvia, Anna, Robert, Thomas, Steve, Fred and Hannah; This & That; Fun videos and SOOO much more!

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Isabel Wilkerson, Carl Sandburg Literary Award recipient.

The Chicago Public Library Foundation has hosted an elaborate Carl Sandburg Literary Awards Dinner for the past 20 years, the last being in 2019 with an extravagant affair at the UIC Forum where over 1000 guests enjoyed a sit-down dinner at tables loaded with books from featured authors and even the authors themselves joining guests at their tables. This year, it was a little different with a virtual event but it was certainly no less exciting. Longtime host Bill Kurtis opened the hour-long event seated in an easy chair in a cozy virtual library. He presented speakers Bob Wislow (CPLF chair), Linda Johnson Rice (CPL chair), Brenda Langstraat (CPLF president), Dave Casper (CPLF vice chair, U.S. CEO BMO Financial Group) and moderator Scott Simon (host NPR Saturday Weekend Edition). Kurtis spoke about past literary giants who had been honored at this prestigious event like Kurt Vonnegut, Margaret Atwood, Salman Rushdie and Toni Morrison. He introduced this year's three honorees: Nate Marshall (21st Century Honoree), Donna La Pietra

Donna La Pietra, the first CPLF Civic Award winner.

 

(Inaugural Civic Award) and Isabel Wilkerson (Carl Sandburg Literary Award). Mayor Lightfoot and First Lady Amy Eshleman served as honorary chairs. Langstraat spoke about the successful pivots the Library has been forced to make due to the pandemic like shifting to virtual programming, creating over 100K grab-and-go activity kits and virtual story sessions like "Live from the Library", the most successful social media campaign in the Library's history! It featured celebrities with ties to Chicago reading to kids including former President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle, Oprah, John C. Reilly, Bonnie Hunt, Gabrielle Union, Common,

Nate Marshall, CPLF 21st Century honoree.

Chelsea Clinton, the Mayor, Jane Lynch, Michelle Williams and many others. This uber-successful campaign garnered 22 million video views and 800 million impressions with viewers tuning in from over 37 countries! Wislow then introduced the 21st Century honoree, Nate Marshall, a rapper, poet, playwright, educator, community-engaged artist and more. Marshall was raised in West Pullman and is the grandson of a Chicago Public librarian. Nate said he was "forged in the farthest reaches of this city" and that his family has had a presence here for a century. He urged viewers to support the library where he was

Former president Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle appeared in video for "Live from the Library."

"nurtured" and ended his acceptance speech with his poem titled "Imagine" dedicated to all those who influenced him. Video congrats came from Natalie Y. Moore (a fellow 21st Century honoree, 2017), Helen

Event host Bill Kurtis and his Donna La Pietra, Civic Award honoree.

Zell, Dr. Eve L. Ewing (2019 21st Century honoree) and Mary Ellen Messmer (CPL Acting Commissioner). Linda Johnson Rice introduced Donna La Pietra as the inaugural Civic Award honoree calling her "a force." Bob Wislow said, "Donna embodies the spirit of this award." Everyone who knows and loves Donna knows what a perfect

choice she is for this honor. She has been on the CPLF board for over 20 years, invited by

Gabrielle Union appeared in the presentation from "Live from the Library."

the board's founder and Donna's

Rap artist Pinqy Ring-After School Matters.

mentor, Cindy Pritzker. Donna, a longtime producer and Emmy Award winner, was also instrumental in the creation of Millennium Park, is active on the boards of many civic organizations, including the Library Foundation, Steppenwolf, Shedd Aquarium and Chicago Botanic Garden to name just a few. She is an avid gardener and land conservationist. There's really not enough space or time to mention all of the ways she has enhanced Chicago and inspired the people who live here, including me, with her unique

Brenda Langstraat, CPLF president.

Chef Rick Bayless.

brand of magic. Donna said, "How lucky am I to have found my way to so many of Chicago's nonprofit organizations, who at their hearts, have a desire to serve and at their soul is volunteerism." Congratulatory videos came in from Greg Cameron (CEO Joffrey Ballet), Rick Bayless, Michelle Boone (Navy Pier), Peter Sagal ("Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me"), Jaume Plensa (artist), Justice Anne Burke, Rhona Frazin (past CPLF pres/CEO), Pinqy Ring (rap artist

Greg Cameron, CEO Joffrey Ballet.

with After School Matters) and artist Nick Cave.

Linda Johnson Rice, CPLF chair.

Donna dedicated her award to her mentor Cindy Pritzker who she said, "has been her role model for service, for fostering fearlessness, for her visionary thinking, for rewarding the risk-takers and for a wide diverse embrace of people and ideas." Pritzker said of Donna, "When I think of the doers in our wonderful city, the first name that pops up is Donna La Pietra. Nobody can come close. She is Miss Chicago." Isabel Wilkerson,

Dr. Eve L. Ewing, 2019 21st Century Award recipient.

the Carl Sandburg Literary Award winner, was featured

Dave Casper, U.S. CEO BMO>

in a Q & A with NPR radio's Scott Simon. Wilkerson is the winner of the Pulitzer Prize and the National Humanities Medal and is the author of the New York Times bestsellers "Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents" and "The Warmth of Other Suns." She spoke about her deeply-researched works that provide insights into America's history and the divides that linger today. She grew up in Washington, D.C. where her father was a Tuskegee Airman. Congrats on this wonderful first virtual Awards event and to all the winners! So inspiring. There is a branch of the Chicago Public Library in all of Chicago's 77 neighborhoods.

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Elizabeth McNally Mairs wearing York Furrier.

Fun, fashion and FUR-lanthropy were the themes for the Oak Brook Chapter of the Auxiliary of the Infant Welfare Society when they hosted "Home for the Holidays" on December 6. Presented by longtime emcee Alison Rosati (NBC-5), the virtual "Mistletoe Medley" event included fabulous fashions curated by  Tracey Tarantino of ZZAZZ Productions (in a collaboration with Chapter member Marge Tresley)

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono (ZZAZZ Productions) at Kehoe Design's Holiday Shoppe.

and a festive home segment from Kehoe Design's Holiday Shoppe at the Peninsula. Alison called the event, "the unofficial start of the festive time of year of giving." Fashion highlights included looks from redE Mas Boutique, York Furrier and Peach Carr Designs,

Lou Smeja, Oak Brook Chapter President.

all presented by my favorite model Elizabeth McNally Mairs. Alison opened the show welcoming viewers and acknowledging Angel Donors Nives Rizza and Susan Heil. Chapter president Lou Smeja thanked supporters and shared that this event raised over $160,000 for the Infant Welfare Society (and the Angel Harvey Family Health Center) and that the Chapter has donated nearly 9,000 hours of volunteer service in 2020. Tracey reported in from redE Mas Boutique in Hinsdale (36 E.

Allison Rosati, longtime event emcee (NBC-5).

First St.) where she showed blazer looks that are perfect for Zoom meetings and then it was onto York Furs. York Furrier (located at 107 N. York St. in Elmhurst) is celebrating 89 years in business and has

Designer Peach Carr, the one and onlyl.

supported nonprofits in the community since its inception. Owners Kathy and John Rezny greet guests like they're family members and the selection of furs, outerwear and unique accessories is one of the best in the city. For this presentation, glam luxe were the watch words as Elizabeth swished about in a beautiful variety of furs and handbags. Tracey then interviewed Project

Tracey Tarantino at redE Mas Boutique.

Runway star, designer Peach Carr, a Chicago native, from her private atelier above her home built in 1870. The space was once a hay loft and has now been transformed into Peach's "happy place" with light

Elegant Elizabeth McNally Mairs wearing an outfit from redE Mas Boutique.

wood and lots of windows. Peach recounted her journey to appear on Project Runway where she was hand-selected by style arbiter Tim Gunn. Peach's daughter Molly was the driving force behind this exciting opportunity urging her mother to submit an application. Peach eventually appeared in

Peach Carr pointing out 3 of her archived designs.

episodes for both Project Runway and Project Runway All-Stars. In a riveting Q & A with Tracey, Peach shared that her collections have always been "about women, for women and made in Chicago." She said she wants women to feel good about themselves

Elizabeth McNally Mairs wearing Peach Carr's popular "paper doll" dress.

and that all of her pieces are very

stretchy, very easy to wear and forgiving, especially with all of us "eating our way through the pandemic." She said Edie Sedgwick, one of Andy Warhol's Factory superstars, has always been her muse and that she even met Edie's aunt Kyra Sedgwick, at an event where Kyra said to

Tracey Tarantino at Kehoe Design's Holiday Shoppe at the Peninsula.

her, "You're the one who designs for my dead aunt, right?" Peach discussed three of her iconic designs that she keeps in the loft. The first, a black cocktail dress, was part of her first collection following Project Runway. A glamorous, pale peach coat dress was her audition piece and a third look, a red dress designed as an

Elizabeth McNally Mairs wearing a Peach Carr design.

homage to Chicago, was the first piece she designed following her bad accident. The event concluded with a beautiful segment filmed at Kehoe Designs' Holiday Shoppe, where Tracey spotlighted all the festive offerings there including centerpieces, ornaments, Hanukkah items, trees and more. Congrats to all of these hardworking women who are supporting the Angel Harvey Family Health Center with such devotion. The Center provides comprehensive, state-of-the-art care for children, adolescents and adults. (More info here!)

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Cooking with Sarah and Kerry Wood for the Wood Family Foundation's Pitch In program.

The Wood Family Foundation hosted a "tasty" virtual fundraiser that involved cooking a holiday dinner with Boka Chef Lee Wolen and Foundation founders Kerry and Sarah Wood. It was a very intimate hour with the Woods Zooming in from their elegant all white kitchen and Chef Wolen from another location to prepare parmesan crusted chicken with butternut squash and

Laura Muriello, Wood Family Foundation executive director. 

polenta. Sarah and Kerry work as well together in the kitchen as they do in real life raising a family of three, Justin, Katie and Charlie. Laura Muriello, executive director of the Wood Family Foundation, introduced the event along with Abby

Boka Chef Lee Wolen.

Kritzler, executive director of the Boka Restaurant Group. Lots of supporters shared their dishes during the video presentation including Erin and Shawn Doty, whose smoke detector went off during their efforts. Lol! Young Cooper Smith and his brother asked Kerry "what was the fastest pitch you ever threw", the answer was

Happy culinary participants.

102 mph! Tom and Cece Ricketts were also cooking along with Chef Wolen and the Woods as well as some mentors in the Foundation's Pitch In program. In its early years, the Foundation

Young supporters.

sponsored one-time initiatives like coat drives, holiday gift programs as well as funding projects like the playroom at Lurie Children's Hospital. As time wore on, the Woods realized the greater needs in the community and, in 2014, developed an after-school mentoring program

Sarah and Kerry's tasty finished dish.

that currently serves four communities and is growing. Sarah and Kerry concluded the evening showing their beautiful finished dishes and thanking supporters. She said, "It's a rough year for nonprofits and our organization is still working hard every day for our students, giving them everything they need from essentials to school supplies to support with their learning as well as meeting virtually every week. We couldn't do this without events like this." Here's to a lot more success Kerry and Sarah! Thanks for your dedication to Chicago's kids! (Learn more about this much needed nonprofit here!)

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Ralph Covert, of Ralph's World, performs at WING's "Sweet Home Chicago" event.

WINGS (Women in Need Growing Stronger) took its popular "Sweet Home Chicago" fundraiser virtual on December 13. In the past, these Sunday brunch fundraisers were held at the Four Seasons with a room full of laughing, dancing kids intent on creating the very best gingerbread houses. This year, supporters could order gingerbread house kits to be delivered to

Rita and John Canning.

their homes as they viewed this 17th delightful (virtual) event. One component that has remained the same though was the joyous, kid-friendly music delivered

Rebecca Darr, executive director WINGS Program.

by Ralph Covert of Ralph's World, a children's musical group that has been a part of this event for the past 11 years. Ralph opened the event Sesame Street-style with a pair of adorable puppets. The event even had a little Mister Rogers' "won't you be my neighbor" feel to it too as Ralph interacted with the puppets and Rebecca Darr, WINGS Program CEO. Darr thanked viewers and

Adorable event participants!

encouraged them to "embrace this fun time and forget about everything happening in the world." She thanked longtime, dedicated event founders/supporters Rita and John Canning. Early on

The late Rich Martin, his wife Donna and their amazing comfort dogs.

Rita realized there were no domestic violence shelters near her home so she decided to build one with the first safe house being built in Chicago's northwest suburbs. Since then, the Cannings have helped raise millions to support those affected by domestic violence. Rita and John appeared on-camera from their home and announced that the event raised over $700,000, making it the largest fundraiser of the year. Lots of cute kiddies appeared onscreen dancing in their jammies to Ralph's "Alphabet Song." Sadly, it was announced that Rich Martin (and his wife Donna),

Dancing to Ralph's World!

whose comfort dogs were a key part of these annual events, had passed away recently due to Covid. In the past, his Golden Retrievers could be seen lounging around the Four Seasons ballroom as kids petted and relaxed around them. The event closed with these encouraging words from Rebecca. "Please know that your support is helping people transcend their life of violence to a life of happiness. No pandemic is going to stop us." (WINGS info here). Currently, WINGS provides 33 safe housing options in and around Chicagoland.

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You can still find a LOT of holiday cheer at Jack Frost's Winter Walk & Christmas Tree Farm. This pop-up experience is located at 1455 N. Elston in Goose Island. It's decorated with over 1 million lights and dozens of Insta-worthy photo opps. You can pick out a perfect tree, visit with Santa, get lost in a Christmas

Candid Candace TV team Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, Troy Mairs and Elizabeth McNally Mairs.

Tree Trail/Maze and enjoy donuts and hot chocolate as you stroll along to the sounds of the season. (Covid guidelines in place, closes January 10 and you must have a res/ticket before arrival. Details here). I hope you enjoy my latest video from Candid Candace TV (below) with special thanks to the production Dream Team, Troy Mairs, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and Elizabeth McNally Mairs, for making it happen! Not a subscriber, please sign up here!)

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Frosty's Pop-Up Christmas Hotel.

And, if you have out of town visitors who love the holidays, steer them to Chicago's first and only pop-up Christmas hotel, Frosty's, at 221 N. Columbus Ave. Yes, it IS the Radisson Blu but, for this brief moment in time it has been transformed into a magical place sprinkled with loads of holiday cheer! Even the rooms are decorated with trees! Dogs and cats are welcome and only registered guests will be allowed access to the hotel. (Details here).

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Albany Park decor.

A little bit of holiday magic is also happening in the 4100 block of N. Francisco Ave. in Albany Park where neighbors

Chuck enjoying N. Francisco Ave. in Albany Park.

have erected endless, lighted "tunnels of love." What began last year between neighbors George Heitz and Ignacio Martinez, has caught on with others along the blocks who wanted to help bring an appreciation for the community. The results are dramatic! (Video here!)

For 20 years, CircuitMOM Productions has been producing world class experiential events led by Matthew Harvat and Edwin Martinez. This year, they have jumped into the holiday

CircuitMOM's Holiday Pop-Up at 409 N. Wolcott.

spirit with all four feet with "CircuitMOM's Holiday Pop-Up" at 409 N. Wolcott. The excitement began on December 9 after they transformed their venue into a winter wonderland. The pop-up offers 8 unique holiday environments where you

With CircuitMOM's Edwin Martinez and Matthew Harvat.

can capture special memories with family, friends and pets, all in a Covid safe environment. Details here: Kids (Under 10) - $6 per (Payment done on site. Cash Credit Card, Zelle, Venmo, PayPal); Adult - $12 per adult (4 people minimum); Professional Pictures - $45 ( Pictures in 3 sets, will receive digital copies, payment done on site. Cash Credit Card, Zelle, Cash-App, PayPal); Prints - $20 (Payment done on site. Cash Credit Card, Zelle, Cash-App, PayPal). (For tickets or more info, click here!) _______________________________________________________________________

I was able to cross something off my bucket list recently with a visit to the iconic and historic Drake Hotel's magnificent Princess Diana Suite, formerly the hotel's Presidential Suite. It was renamed after Princess Diana's

Part of the luxurious Princess Diana Suite.

historic, and only, visit to Chicago in June, 1996. Watch for a Chicago Star Media all-access video coming soon of my interview with Damien McArdle, the Drake's GM, who shares fun-filled details about the Princess' visit and a fabulous package they're offering in the suite now! Trivia question, do you know why the hotel's hallways are so wide? To be able to accommodate two women in period ball gowns walking side by side. (Now, take a suite peek here!)

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Greg Hyder, the King of Christmas.

I know most of us have already decorated for the holidays, but I quizzed some of my favorite event designers on their favorite tips and tricks. Debi Lilly, A Perfect Event, loves filling her trees with fresh flowers,

Debi Lilly's beautiful, flower-filled Christmas tree (photo by Tiffaney Childs)

peonies and hydrangeas and mixing them in with faux flowers. She also suggests styling a winter wonderland champagne bar topped with flowers in silver vases or mercury glass. She loves gifts wrapped in velvet bows with cheeky tags and adding luxe to wrapping paper with suede tassels, Swiss silk double face ribbon and tiny pom poms hot glued onto craft paper. Vintage bottle brush trees are another favorite item to

Michelle Durpetti's elegant holiday table.

decorate with as are fresh pine boughs. Michelle Durpetti, another fabulous wedding planner, event designer and co-owner of Gene & Georgetti's restaurant, says don't limit yourself to traditional holiday colors. Consider jewel tones and don't be afraid of

Greg Hyder and Jim Smith's ornament-filled chandelier.

adding texture to your holiday table. Think velvet table linens with gorgeous glassware, Shantung napkins with wooden chargers. She loves using her mom's (Marion

Ramsey Prince decorates a gorgeous holiday table. (Maison du Prince, 566 Chestnut, Winnetka)

Durpetti) collection of salt and pepper shakers, flatware and china that she picked up in her travels. She said, "This way, the table provides direct access to memory lane as a conversation starter." Event planner Derrick Taylor says "don't get caught up in commercial fads. Christmas is really about feeling. Collect ornaments that tell your story." Greg Hyder helps plan plenty of seasonal decor at

Debi Lilly with a locally sourced tree.

  the Peninsula Hotel but for his own home, with partner Jim Smith, he likes to go a little more over the top. He's as much a fan of Christmas as I am (if this is even possible?!) and he decorates every nook and cranny. In their new, multi-

Debi Lilly's pastel bottle brush trees add a charming touch.

level home, he has plenty to work with but is conscious of his carbon footprint. He repurposes decor to suit the holiday. For instance, when Halloween is over, the bright orange pumpkins are transformed into silver and gold works of art that adorn their front steps. Greg loves using ornaments in unexpected places too like hanging from chandeliers or worked into vignettes for the mantle. He's a great collector of vintage items and decorates with traditional as well as modern

Meet Sookie Hyder-Smith. Finally, a home for the holidays (rescued from PAWS by Greg and Jim).

elements. I love all of these friends' styles and know their homes are filled with so much holiday cheer! For Chuck and me, we LOVE to decorate and, most years, leave our Christmas tree and decorations up way past their due date. I can't stand to part with it.  Actually, I keep a curio cabinet up year-round filled with vintage Christmas items along with a 4-foot-tall Santa that I bought with my Mom at Marshall Field's. A giant, lighted wreath adorns our antique liquor cabinet (that I bought in high school for $45 on layaway). These are things I just can't part with, they provide way too many happy memories. Fortunately, Chuck feels the same (I think).

Kehoe Designs helping those less fortunate during the holidays.

Kudos to Tom Kehoe! His Kehoe Designs is working with local nonprofits to gift fully decorated Christmas trees to those in need of a little extra holiday cheer. Working with the American Heart Association, HIRE 360 and NAMI Chicago, the partners have identified recipients who have had particularly challenging experiences this year. The first tree went to Angelo Panzica, who came down with Covid after being hired by HIRE 360. Thanks for all you do in our communities Tom!

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Joseph Szmczak and Shaun Rajah.

A great gift idea brought to you by Shaun Rajah and Joseph Szmczak,, Holiday Happy Hour Towers! Stylishly curated bundles of sweets, savories and holiday scents for Christmas and NYE that come in beautiful, signature holiday packaging! (Details here!)  

I want to give a shout-out to my fellow columnist Thomas

The uber-talented Thomas O'Gorman of Skyline newspaper.

O'Gorman, the delightful, around-town writer for the Skyline newspaper. In my wildest dreams, I could never write as good as he does. His work is sheer poetry and his knowledge of the arts, history, Chicago and even gourmet cooking runs very, very deep. I love all of his columns and never miss them but, his most recent one, "Who would ever want to be king,"  truly captured the spirit of the holidays and Chicago in its present state. It is a must-read! Keep up the great work Thomas! YOU are a Chicago treasure! (Scroll down his Facebook page to his column here!)  

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National Jingle Bell Day presented by Chicago Star Media, Saturday, December 19, 6 pm CST!

I'm so excited and hope you can join me on Saturday, December 19 at 6 pm CST. Chicago Star Media has come up with a really BIG idea to bring the city and, hopefully, the country together for National Jingle Bell Day! The concept for NJBD was born after the resurgence of Covid-19 in Illinois caused another wave of shutdowns this fall that has extended into the holidays. Elaine Hyde, publisher/editor of Chicago Star Media, created the event after being inspired by the community sing-a-longs that took place in Chicago earlier in the year. So, on Dec.19, at 6 pm CST, wherever you are, indoors, outdoors, in your car or in your workplace, videotape yourself singing Jingle Bells and post to social media with the hashtag #jinglebellday2020! OR, come join us around the Great Tree near the Wrigley building on Saturday, Dec. 19 at 6 pm! Bring your bells, we will be live-streaming! (For more info, visit Chicago Star Media here and let's SING!)

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Porchlight Music Theatre announces its latest virtual offering, the holiday return of The Ruffians’ Burning Bluebeard! Burning Bluebeard, now in its ninth year, was created and performed by the critically acclaimed theatre troupe The Ruffians. A magical story, told with music, clowning, tumbling, acrobatics and dance, Burning Bluebeard is a physical-performance phenomena inspired by the true story of Chicago’s former Iroquois Theatre and the unforgettable events that resulted in tragedy for 600 theatergoers at Christmastime in 1903. "A vaudevillian musical delight with a story that excavates the poetic and poignant remains of a piece of Chicago’s rich history and will leave you with an unforgettable experience." (Details here, through January 3!)

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Chicago’s oldest Nutcracker tradition is transformed into a one-of-a-kind, immersive, virtual experience featuring (pre-recorded) dance at the historic Ruth Page Center for the Arts located in Chicago’s Gold Coast. Streaming now, join the Stahlbaum’s at their holiday gathering. Experience Clara’s dreams of sugar plums, rogue bon bons, impish peppermints and a pine forest dusted with snow. Peek into Drosselmeyer's Workshop and the Kingdom of Sweets to see the Sugar Plum Fairy dance with her friends. Visions: A Nutcracker Experience gives everyone a chance to see The Ruth Page Center for the Arts as never before and an opportunity to celebrate the season in a whole new way. (Through Dec. 20, details here!)   

Chicago Lights will host its "Gala of Hope, at Home", on Friday, March 5 at 7 pm. This virtual event will benefit the life-changing and youth development and social service programs of Chicago Lights and the community support efforts of the Replogle Center for Counseling and Well-Being. Details here!

And, it's not too late to donate to the holiday toy drives going on across Chicagoland! Here's a great list comprised by Block Club Chicago!

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Nadia Lee Cohen holds copy of her first book, WOMEN, a sell out in its first run!

I'm so excited about Nadia Lee Cohen's first book, WOMEN. British-born, Los Angeles-based photographer

Nadia Lee Cohen's "WOMEN."

Nadia's WOMEN, her IDEA-published photo book debut, is the result of six years of work and features 100 "extra unordinary portraits." And I am one of them. Pinch me. It opens with Mick Jagger's daughter, Georgia May. The first run, a limited edition of 1000, is already sold out! They are taking orders now for the second edition here.

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My favorite rock legend, Jim Peterik, will be offering his 25th

Rock legend Jim Peterik, the Ides of March.

annual "Sharing Christmas with the Ides of March" on Saturday, Dec. 19, 8 pm, CST. This live-streamed event (from his studio!) will be available for FREE (Jim's Christmas gift to his fans) on youtube and facebook! (Details here)!

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Hannah Stanley and Fred Weintraub--WGCO radio.

The year is coming to a close and this seems to be about the

Anna Davlantes--WGN radio host. (John Reilly photo).

end of virtual fundraisers until next year. I've been traveling around town gathering up as much holiday cheer as I possibly can to share with you and it's been a gold mine out there. People are celebrating and decorating in ways I've never seen before. An event designer friend of

Sylvia Perez--Fox 32 Chicago.

mine told me stores like Michael's, Target, Home Goods, Home Depot and others, were sold out of Christmas decor almost before they were stocked! I'm thrilled to be able to find so many media outlets

Robert Feder's column.

covering places to go and things to do for the holidays too. It was a thrill to present my Holiday Hot List (read it here on Chicago Star Media) and more fun news from around town with the one and only Sylvia Perez (Fox 32 Chicago), Anna Davlantes (WGN-Radio) and Fred Weintraub and Hannah Stanley (WGCO radio's "The Hannah & Fred Show," listen here!) I loved chatting about what I know and love best, CHICAGO, and I'm so lucky to have such wonderfully supportive media friends! And a special thanks to Robert Feder and Skyline's Thomas O'Gorman for including me in their must-read columns too! (Watch my fun interview with Sylvia below!) Love and thanks to ALL!

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Playboy never forgets its Playmates. For years and years, Hefner always sent Christmas gifts to every one of his Playmates. Gifts included everything from branded clothing (PB backpacks) to jewelry to customized cosmetics (think "Playmate Pink" blush)! I'm so happy to see his tradition continue! Thanks dear Playboy for

Steve Ewert photo.

never forgetting those who brought you to the party!

Special thanks to photographer Steve Ewert who included me in his "Portraits of Successful Women" campaign. It's an honor to appear alongside alongside Brandis Friedman, Dominique Jordan, Lily Liu, Laura Chavez, Kate Sullivan and others. Thanks so much for including me Steve! (Read my story here, if you want, lol)

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The spirit of the season has not been dampened for me even with Covid and all the problems we're facing right now. If anything, I'm feeling even more hopeful. I was chatting with a very knowledgeable friend who's in retail recently and he really opened my eyes with his interesting take on things. He said, "Can you imagine what it's going to be like when this is all over and people are safe and free to travel again? We will be swamped here in Chicago with people from the Midwest and across the country finally anxious to get out and about! The stores, hotels and restaurants will be packed. It will be like after Prohibition!" I had never thought of things this way but I think he is absolutely right! I know I will be jumping out of my sneakers (no more heels in the near future) to do all of the things I haven't been able to enjoy for all these many months. I will feel like Secretariat breaking free of the starting gate! So, I do see light at the end of our long, dark tunnel. And I just can't wait to celebrate (with you)!  

Have a Happy, Healthy, Safe Holiday Season and a Very Merry Christmas! Here's to a big, bright 2021 for us all!

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S.  I didn't know they could read?!